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Videos that PROVE dating is EXHAUSTING for Women 😩

Life with Melonie

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Women have been saying dating is exhausting..... based on these stories... I am not surprised.

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20 Comments

@Godfavorsmi 6 months ago

These men out here trying to break a woman down.

@latanyacunningham2664 6 months ago

Red flag = instant BLOCK no explanation

@NopeSE51 6 months ago

The so-called “male loneliness epidemic” is self inflicted. Yet men don’t seem to want to address or change any of the awful behaviour that keeps them alone and lonely. If the loneliness is that bad, they might actually look within themselves to try to figure out what is going wrong. Except they don’t do that. Instead they turn to online “dating coaches” that basically tell men to treat women even worse and then wonder why they remain single. Instead of calling it the “male loneliness epidemic” it needs to be re-named the male idiocy epidemic.

@biblestudieswithdomlaf3310 6 months ago (edited)

Us women need to stop gaslighting ourselves! A lot of these girls tolerate a lot… you let him bag your food as you were eating without asking u…I would have smiled and told the waitress that I WILL finish my food … thank you 👀

@traceylennon1204 6 months ago

PLEASE if you need to go on these dates so bad, take separate cars and carry extra money with you just in CASE...For the love of GOD!!

@KNicoleTWBP 6 months ago (edited)

Never fish for compliments.
Move along if he's stingy with something that's FREE99!! Lol 😂😅

@TIAOFNEBULA 6 months ago

The moment its not fun or beneficial in any way i'm leaving.

@asdf4678z 5 months ago

The point is withholding approval so that she begins to feel desperate for his approval thereby making her feel like she has to work and prove her Worth to him.

@TabbySiamAbby 6 months ago

I'm at the point where I would never continue a date with someone who says something rude, disrespectful, uncomfortable etc. I'm also just not dating right now period, I've seen enough tbh.

@caroz.liquidlight 6 months ago

This ia what I think. If on the first date he is doing these things, imagine later?

@rangda_prime 6 months ago (edited)

The guy joking about murd3r1ng her: It's called indexing. It's a probe of your boundaries to see where you will actually start defending yourself. If that boundary is too far in, they will strike and you won't have the space to get away. Predatory people very often say these things out loud very early in an interaction. It's not them being weird, it's a predatory tactic, you are being stalked to see if you're prey. She escaped death with a very thin margin that night.

@rra7490 6 months ago

😳 Run run seriously, she could have ended up on the news. First joke about m**rder then bye.

@all_d16 6 months ago

The pause for me is so appropriate bc what in the world ?!?!? Shameful. 1:05

@kennyav25 6 months ago

To ME dating is not exhausting because I treat it like it whatever. I will call you out, get up and leave if you piss me off.

@sonialeane2985 6 months ago (edited)

most males don't want to date; they want a "shit-dump"—pardon my bluntness and crudeness. they want to unload all the negativity they accumulated from life’s hardships onto some bewildered woman, and then walk away with the head held high.
Turn around and leave. Who cares what else they might blurt out or think? Your self-esteem will thank you for it.

@karlagonzalvez4703 6 months ago

I wouldve told dude in the first story that the nonchalant crap and negging that red pill losers want him to do isnt gonna help him with women. Maybe girls, jits. Wouldve told him to grow up or something. HoW aRe YoU nOt EmBaRrAsEd? 😅

@cooladultkidontheblock1882 6 months ago

with these men playing games the first time, women need to end the date and block. drive and meet him and never have him meet at your house, etc...

@bryna7 2 months ago

The murder guy was late picking her up because he was preparing his murder bag. Probably tape, rope, gloves, etc.

@lindseyclarkable 4 months ago

i had to block every single male when i dated in LA it was HORRRRIBLE!!!!!!!!!

@Ms.Mu73 6 months ago

Once the mind games began we're done here. I'm not interested in finding out how you're going to waste my time with nonsense and mental abuse. They don't have to put hands on you to abuse you.