in the least parasocial way possible, please do not respond to ur mom dani. i really don't think it's worth sacrificing ur mental health for a relationship with someone that has proved to not care about u time n time again. i love u
Dani babe, my dad was awful and when he died my only regret was not swearing at him more. People dying don't make them saints. You're alive, protect your peace ♡
aw baby girl i empathise with your situation with your mother i understand to an extent..its never your fault for how she may have treated you, you are loved, strong and beautiful<3
Hi Dani, I would sincerly like to say that you are not being selfish with your mother. If you feel it would be nice to know if she's well by texting with her but not seeing her, that's fine. But if you know it will end in hurt, then you've tried before and seen the result. I love your videos and sry if this is parasocial.
girl, it is so hard to deal with the strange guilt of not having a good relationship with your mom. i get it </3 but trust your own experiences enough to know what's good for you, and it really sounds like keeping that relationship out of your life is what's best <3 hang in there, twin. she doesn't deserve your incredible energy.
18:56 i also went no contact with my dad and the fear of him killing himself is so real i genuinely feel relieved to know im not the only one who feels like that
honestly mums are shit, i really appreciate you being so open about cutting them off because your such a virtual big sister and its so comforting knowing im not alone in it. thank you babes x
When I was 18, I went no contact with my mum for 9 years. Had 2 children myself and didn't say a single word to her all that time. We have a good relationship now. The first thing she said to me when we respoke was ' I've calmed down a lot now '. Sometimes space and time is needed xxx