Small correction; People with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) generally do not experience true clinical mania, which is a hallmark of bipolar disorder. While BPD involves intense mood swings that can resemble mania, these experiences are distinct in duration, cause, and nature.

BPD "highs" are often described as intense, fleeting euphoria, excitement, or feeling "on top of the world" following a positive event. Mania often involves sustained feelings of grandiosity, decreased need for sleep, and high-risk activity.

3:00 " a grown up house" honey u allegedly cheated on ur wife with her best friend, I think we've found the real child here

i think zach is SO fucking weird i genuinely think he's a creep he shouldn't find this not concerning at all?? i dont condone cheating but they are together now so genuinely wtf

Zack is such an idiot. Weak-ass men. I hope Megan gets the best partner.

Megan deserves such a break. I believe that Zack has actually realized his decisions but has dug himself too deep. Also I fully believe this goes deeper with Leah than just this situation, such as dealing with a mental disorder causing a lot of her reactions/actions or going absent. Of course that is NO excuse. Hope Megan grows to be more than Leah could ever be. Thanks for keeping us updated!

I really hope Megan is able to get full custody of Clover. Its terrible that a baby has to go through all of this but at least it isnt fully conscious to understand anything thats going on. Leah is literally unwell and Zach..I have no words for this man.

Megan is really humble. When my best friend of over a decade left me, I had literal violent thoughts (not that I’d do anything, but it was a coping mechanism).

zack’s greedy and wanted both (he suggested becoming a throuple to megan), leah’s now realised that she will never fully equate to megan which has caused her to do all this (like getting rid of her old personality and clothing sense) and try her hardest to become megan as she knows zack still has feelings for megan which will never go away

I mean this in the least parasocial way, but Megan is genuinely such an amazing human being and her empathy and the things she does for people is so astonished

the saddest part abt this whole thing is that it seems megan cares and knows more abt leah than zach ever did…like if u were in love w someone that u shatter ur whole life js to be w why the hell would u be ok w her leaving her comfort stuff? even if he did say he never said she couldnt bring stuff, the sheer indifference makes it seem like he could not gaf abt her being at all

Everything Leah is doing right now is the most common thing people do before they attempt...she is literally leaving all her favorite stuff behind.

As of course it’s been mentioned before, and judging by the things discussed in this video, I seriously think Leah has some sort of just severe identity issues in herself. It seems like she thinks who she is is unimportant or not unique, maybe even worthless, so she’s attached herself onto the idea of being Megan so that she can feel like she has a life worth living. Which obviously is incredibly concerning, and it of course does not excuse what she did or what she continues to do in her unhealthy state, but it just rubs me the wrong way that Zach seems to be so unconcerned. I honestly don’t think he loves Leah either. If he did, he would be at least a little more concerned about her in leaving EVERYTHING she loved behind to move in with him. Maybe he doesn’t care because he’s okay with her watering herself down trying to be more and more like Megan, because he wants to feel like he didn’t mess up his whole life. Megan probably cares more for them in her heartbreak and anger than either of them care about her or even each other. This whole situation is just so messed up😭😭

I don’t condone what Leah’s done or perhaps what she will continue to do, but I do hope she gets some help and learns to love herself for who she really is and not the person who she wants to be.

I also don’t wanna accuse her of anything, but if she was struggling so much mentally before as Megan said, it wouldn’t surprise me if she went through with the cheating just so she could get Megan to cut her off first, and she doesn’t have to worry about another person grieving her if she did yk what. Maybe it’s unlikely, but idk. All this kind of seems like she’s destroying herself on purpose, maybe just for Zach and to be ultimately like Megan, but it could also be some sort of cry for help because she has a certain ideation, especially since Zach seems to be fine with it.

Zach dug too deep, got caught and decided to cling to Leah instead. To him I don’t think it was ever about the kind of love he says it is, but about that rush you get when you first meet a “romantic interest.” Either way he missed that rush of feeling wanted by someone and he went to someone who he KNEW wasn’t mentally and he clinged onto her while he was still married. Now that he’s caught, he has nobody to cling to besides the woman he used to get that rush. Leah genuinely should get therapy and even just leave them all alone for good because she’s mentally not okay.

Oh yeah, leaving her SSRIs behind is a bad sign. I quit my Zoloft and those side effects are exactly what happened to me, and the outcome it had on my life was tumultuous to say the least.

I’ll be so deadass, I think Zach has such a big role to do in this that he refuses to say. Because if she’s leaving behind her favorite stuffy, a thing that is apart of her identity, and Zach’s OKAY with it? Yeah, no, I definitely think he’s getting in her ear and pushing her down this rabbit hole. Like he’s also trying to take advantage of her current mental state, and force her to drop everything and anything she loved just for him. But I could always be wrong.

13:13  hottake but if leah can't take care of a dog maybe because of her mental health it is perfectly fine to rehome them and that might be the best decision not defending leah as I don't like cheaters but still

If she can just toss her pets aside ESPECIALLY Astro, who has been there since I used to watch Leah as a kid, imagine what she could do to Clover. You think she really cares? What happens when her romanticization of her life with Zach isn’t the fairytale she thought it was? Megan and Clover deserves so much better… & I hope Leah get’s SERIOUS HELP. 💔

having a child in the mix is making the whole situation 10x worse. i worry what will happen if Megan tries to and manages to get full custody of Clover, since being a mother is something that leah wanted so badly. i also fear what might happen if Zach and Leah break up

People when dealing with people who are mentally struggling tend to forget there is a difference between cause and excuse. Leah's potential mental disorder or mental health problems in general (might've) caused her to do this. Her potential mental disorder doesn't excuse her from the consequences but it does add context as to why she did this.

I'm convinced Zach is secretly mistreating Leah bc wdym he was so chill about Leah leaving all the stuff she cares behind? + him saying they have an "adult" home now when her house wasn't even fully "childish" and it's just her rooms and stuff and some decor around the house...idk yall maybe it's just me