🤠 Want Blaine to set you up on dates, or coach you? → https://datingbyblaine.com/hi
🎞️ Want to appear on Help Me, I'm Single? → https://www.datingbyblaine.com/help-m...
Thanks for joining for Episode 1 of Help Me, I'm Single! This is a new concept, so please share what you liked, what you didn't like, and any improvement ideas for future episodes in the comments. I'll do my best to take your feedback into account for future episodes ❤️
Also, if you want an update on Jason's dating journey, comment below, and I'll try to fill you in!
Here's the show description from the podcast version:
No Blaine, No Gain! America's favorite dating coach and matchmaker, Blaine Anderson, is joined by comedian co-host ANNIE LEDERMAN to audit the dating life of The Bachelorette's JASON ALABASTER! They discuss why Jason enjoys doing mushrooms on the first date, why he was once fired for being "too hot", and Annie shares how she tried to break up with a guy on a hike... only to date him for three more years! PLUS: Blaine gives a homework assignment that every single should be doing once a day.
Chapters:
0:00 – Teaser & Introduction
0:23 – Show Intro: Meet Jason & Annie Lederman
1:12 – Jason’s Background: Memphis to LA & Tennis Coach Life
2:00 – Fired for Being Too Attractive
3:36 – Jason’s Dating History & Therapy Journey
5:02 – The Bachelorette Experience
8:28 – After the Show: Dating & Emotional Fallout
13:32 – Dating Now: Intuition, No Apps, Few Approaches
17:30 – How Jason Meets Women IRL
20:14 – Dating Struggles: Knowing When It’s Not Right
22:14 – Annie’s Hike-to-Breakup Turned 3-Year Relationship
24:43 – Finding the Right Partner: More Shots on Goal
25:13 – What Jason’s Looking For in a Partner
27:10 – Building Confidence Through Hobbies & Community
29:00 – How Blaine Met Her Husband at Barry’s
31:10 – Approach Advice: Vibe First, Ask Later
33:00 – First Dates That Don’t Suck (Walks, Comedy, Coffee)
35:00 – Microdosing on a Third Date
36:50 – When You Know There's No Vibe
38:45 – Annie’s Story: Her Relationship Origin & Age Gap
40:19 – Giving Dates a Second Chance
41:50 – Revisiting Jason’s Dating Life on The Bachelorette
43:10 – Jason’s Type: Physical & Emotional Preferences
44:34 – Wants Kids, Not in a Rush
45:54 – Dating in Memphis vs. LA
48:39 – Moving to LA & Being Starstruck by Women
50:50 – How Social Media Changed Dating Expectations
51:22 – Homework: One Approach a Day + Journal
54:00 – Final Coaching Tips & Jason’s Plan Forward
56:00 – The Approach Journal: Helpful or Horrifying?
58:25 – OnlyFans, Dating Preferences, and No Judgment
59:37 – Wrap-Up & Where to Find Annie
🤠 Want Blaine to set you up on dates, or coach you? → https://datingbyblaine.com/hi
🎞️ Want to appear on Help Me, I'm Single? → https://www.datingbyblaine.com/help-m...
Thanks for joining for Episode 1 of Help Me, I'm Single! This is a new concept, so please share what you liked, what you didn't like, and any improvement ideas for future episodes in the comments. I'll do my best to take your feedback into account for future episodes ❤️
Also, if you want an update on Jason's dating journey, comment below, and I'll try to fill you in!
Here's the show description from the podcast version:
No Blaine, No Gain! America's favorite dating coach and matchmaker, Blaine Anderson, is joined by comedian co-host ANNIE LEDERMAN to audit the dating life of The Bachelorette's JASON ALABASTER! They discuss why Jason enjoys doing mushrooms on the first date, why he was once fired for being "too hot", and Annie shares how she tried to break up with a guy on a hike... only to date him for three more years! PLUS: Blaine gives a homework assignment that every single should be doing once a day.
Chapters:
0:00 – Teaser & Introduction
0:23 – Show Intro: Meet Jason & Annie Lederman
1:12 – Jason’s Background: Memphis to LA & Tennis Coach Life
2:00 – Fired for Being Too Attractive
3:36 – Jason’s Dating History & Therapy Journey
5:02 – The Bachelorette Experience
8:28 – After the Show: Dating & Emotional Fallout
13:32 – Dating Now: Intuition, No Apps, Few Approaches
17:30 – How Jason Meets Women IRL
20:14 – Dating Struggles: Knowing When It’s Not Right
22:14 – Annie’s Hike-to-Breakup Turned 3-Year Relationship
24:43 – Finding the Right Partner: More Shots on Goal
25:13 – What Jason’s Looking For in a Partner
27:10 – Building Confidence Through Hobbies & Community
29:00 – How Blaine Met Her Husband at Barry’s
31:10 – Approach Advice: Vibe First, Ask Later
33:00 – First Dates That Don’t Suck (Walks, Comedy, Coffee)
35:00 – Microdosing on a Third Date
36:50 – When You Know There's No Vibe
38:45 – Annie’s Story: Her Relationship Origin & Age Gap
40:19 – Giving Dates a Second Chance
41:50 – Revisiting Jason’s Dating Life on The Bachelorette
43:10 – Jason’s Type: Physical & Emotional Preferences
44:34 – Wants Kids, Not in a Rush
45:54 – Dating in Memphis vs. LA
48:39 – Moving to LA & Being Starstruck by Women
50:50 – How Social Media Changed Dating Expectations
51:22 – Homework: One Approach a Day + Journal
54:00 – Final Coaching Tips & Jason’s Plan Forward
56:00 – The Approach Journal: Helpful or Horrifying?
58:25 – OnlyFans, Dating Preferences, and No Judgment
59:37 – Wrap-Up & Where to Find Annie