What kind of daughter ignors their parent in an accident? Me! After all the gaslighting, favoritism and being an unwanted child I won't lose any sleep for not helping them.
I've heard this before. Allison's rich husband dumped her for another woman. He only married her to secure custody of his kids from the ex. He never loved her. Op went full NC with everybody.
I'm guessing fraturnal twins, not identical, and yes I've heard it before, she needed to talk to a attorney about the money left to her and used for her sister
" walking around in a fog...". I think you mean the fear, the obligation, the guilt. This is what a lot of abusive parents and or narcissistic parents force on their kids. Fear, obligation, guilt... So that you are controllable
again, if it was the truckers fault, the medical bills would be covered by the trucker's insurance, even if they don't say that in this story, but I've heard this before and everything else is the same.
Your dad grumbled that you should be more like Alison. In a way you are because like her, you have washed your hands clean of it. She may have been selfish but same logic applies.