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How Dominant/submissive Dynamic Works in a Relationship with Two Type A Partners

Lee Manian

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In this episode, I share why having a Dominant/submissive or a Leader/follower dynamic works so well for my partner (type A male) and me (type A female).

For most of my life, I’ve identified as a high achiever, type A personality woman…

While this was great for my career, it wasn’t great for my romantic relationships (with masculine men)…

Secretly underneath all of my shining leadership qualities, I actually wanted to be led.

I wanted to follow someone I could trust and surrender to…

I just didn’t know how to do that in dating and love (until I learned how)…

And until I met a man who was trustworthy and worth surrendering to!

Taking on a surrendered, feminine role in my relationship has been the most liberating, rewarding thing I could choose for myself as a Type A woman.

In this video, I share a piece of er0tica writing that captures the essence of my relationship dynamic with my partner, and what could be possible for you in your relationships.

I also give you the 3 ways you can start to feel safe to surrender in your relationship — whether it’s with a man you have yet to meet or your current partner.

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17 Comments

@nickybee7920 1 month ago

I agree, always go go go. It’s a perfect ground for burnout and exhaustion.

@songbird4212 1 year ago

I absolutely loved your discussion. It was eloquent, thoughtful, empowering, educational and brilliantly organized. A man I met recently explained the dynamics of this type of relationship and my mind is blown! I am definitely ready to go evolve and relax deeply into my feminine energy so he can be exactly who he needs to be.

@bruceeide4359 1 month ago

Delightful. 🙂
You are delightful.
Fortunate is the man worthy of you beautiful girl. ❤

@gturcott1 3 months ago

Very fascinating video your podcast looks great!!! I think it’s a really complicated issue and yes intimacy is at the core of it.

@yeticusrex1661 2 years ago (edited)

I think you have touched on and have explained very adeptly on your relationship dynamic since both of you are masculine in your daily pursuits, yet you must shift into your feminine when you are under the same roof to make your relationship more effortless when you interact with your man. I appreciate your viewpoint as the woman explaining why your man must be attentive to your feelings (without becoming your therapist), and take that into account when he is making decisions that will be most beneficial to both of you as a couple. Obviously, two-way communication is key here, where his listening and asking quality questions in order for you to open up to create a better understanding without making judgements on his side, and not making demands on your side. This repetition of this type of communication will open you up and creates the trust you need in order to submit to him once the trust has been established.

@michaelcox5138 5 months ago

Wow. I appreciate this insight. I caught myself saying out loud, yep, that’s right. I will be watching more of your videos . Thank you!!

@altazmaul51 2 months ago

Danke 🙏 ♥️

@willpotter8343 1 year ago

Thank you for this. Great explanations

@RuggedMan27 5 months ago

I love your channel

@bibienricakupe 1 year ago

Thank you ❤

@ElvisPelvis-z1r 2 months ago (edited)

I am a submissive man and would never be in a relationship with a Dominant woman, it would be a nightmare.

@briancz1 1 year ago

My wife and I have been married for 20 years and she wants a divorce. I wish I saw this a year ago when she started telling me she was getting tired, pulling away, and what her needs.

@ewarzeuska7182 6 months ago

Being more in feminin energy, taking pain and humilation? Seriously?

@Gwen-x6d 2 years ago

Bad video editing

@anujbahl9028 2 years ago

why is your camera such trash? It's 2024

@paulds65 2 years ago

Discount "50 shade of gray" story. Gentlemen do not listen to this woman. Dont know why youtube puts this in my feed but immediately added to "do not recommend".

@Ego.monster 2 years ago

If this man is responsible for you in any way, then he has “authority” over you. If you enter into a relationship with a dominant male then he is your authority. Ladies, you cannot be in both worlds. Pick a side and deal with it. She constantly says leadership role, you as the feminine energy means you submit to his authority.