【心理の雑学】奪う人が“勝てない相手”の正体 ～静かに支配を終わらせる人～
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▼Table of Contents
・ Introduction (Beginning) 00:00
The True Identity of Takers
・ "Takers Who See Others' Hearts as Resources" 00:58
Why Kind People Are Targeted
① A Structure Controlled by Emotions 03:04
② The "Blind Spot" of Kindness 04:45
Takers Are "Unbeatable Opponents"
① People Who Don't Act on Emotions 06:21
② People Who Don't Allow Dependence 08:16
The Strength of Not Reacting "Silent Intelligence" 10:22
Distance Isn't Coldness, It's a Sign of Maturity
① How to Maintain Psychological Distance 11:54
② The Courage to Distance 13:21
・Conclusion 14:50
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▼Trivia for conversation
話したくなる雑学
▼Worries, psychology, and lifestyle
悩み・心理・生き方
▼Love trivia
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▼Health Trivia
健康の雑学
▼History Trivia
歴史の雑学
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高齢者でもうじゃうじゃいるからああいう人達って死ぬまで変わらないんだろうな、、
ハハハ…って笑って誤魔化していたのですが、ある時アホらしくなって、スッと表情を消して、相槌も止めて、何を言われても無表情、無言で相手の目をじっと見つめる様にしました。
すると相手は100％の確率で、ビックリした顔をして、急に取り繕い始め、作り笑顔で自分から立ち去ってくれる様になりました。
相手を尊重しないヤツは、人を選んでやっているのだな実感しました。
どんどん寄り掛かられて、でも辛い時に突き離されるのは堪えるよなと思って、元気になるまでは、少しでも元気になってくれたらと思って気遣ったり頑張ってきてたけど、終わりが来ない。
限界を迎えて距離を取ろうとすると、まるでこちらが酷い事をしてるかのように責めてきて、罪悪感が半端なかった。
一緒にいるとどんどん気力が奪われて行く気がして、何も楽しめなくなって行ってた。
先日思い切って縁を切ったけど、正しい選択だったんだ。良かった。
自分を優しいと思った事はないけど、絶望的に距離感を取るのが下手とか、どうしようもない馬鹿なのかなと思ってたから、正しい選択ができたんだと知れて良かった。
漸くちゃんと吹っ切れた気がする。気持ちが軽くなりました。
【心理の雑学】奪う人が“勝てない相手”の正体 ～静かに支配を終わらせる人～
ググレバ【人生の役に立つ雑学】
240,927 views
Thank you for watching!
If you enjoyed the video, please comment, like, and subscribe!
▼Table of Contents
・ Introduction (Beginning) 00:00
The True Identity of Takers
・ "Takers Who See Others' Hearts as Resources" 00:58
Why Kind People Are Targeted
① A Structure Controlled by Emotions 03:04
② The "Blind Spot" of Kindness 04:45
Takers Are "Unbeatable Opponents"
① People Who Don't Act on Emotions 06:21
② People Who Don't Allow Dependence 08:16
The Strength of Not Reacting "Silent Intelligence" 10:22
Distance Isn't Coldness, It's a Sign of Maturity
① How to Maintain Psychological Distance 11:54
② The Courage to Distance 13:21
・Conclusion 14:50
▼If you liked this video, please check out my other videos!
@youtube-ggreba
▼Trivia for conversation
話したくなる雑学
▼Worries, psychology, and lifestyle
悩み・心理・生き方
▼Love trivia
https://www.youtube.com/playlist?lis t=PLRloWwmEcVd_gPtwyr1RbYvYLw8Lsy9Ie
▼Health Trivia
健康の雑学
▼History Trivia
歴史の雑学
▼Copyright Information▼
All images used in this video belong to their respective owners.
If there are any issues with the content of this video, we would appreciate it if the rights holders could contact us.
▼Borrowed Materials▼
VOICEVOX: https://voicevox.hiroshiba.jp/
Irasutoya: https://www.irasutoya.com/
Sound Effect Lab: https://soundeffect-lab.info/
▼Unique Videos and Educational Value
I provide explanations to deepen viewers' knowledge.
When producing these videos, I write scripts and narrations, and then add audio using "free and original background music and sound effects."
Then, I create unique animations to keep viewers engaged and enriched with educational value.
◆YouTube channel monetization policy
This video is original content in which I actually appear, perform, create, and read the narration manuscript, all by myself.
We also frequently use effects, add background music and sound effects, and pay attention to the pauses between conversations to make the videos interesting through trial and error so that the content does not become monotonous and repetitive.
#Taker #Psychology #Worries #Life #Lifehacks #Trivia #Explanation #Facts #Trivia #Informative #ListeningAloud
奪われる優しさよりも、守れる優しさを…
静かな決意は、誰にも見えなくても、きっとあなたの人生を変えていきます！
どうか今日も、自分の心にやさしくしてあげてください。