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17 Signs of Secret Attraction & What To Do

Liz Rose

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Most people think attraction is obvious. It isn't. Attraction often shows up in subtle behaviors that people don't even realize they're displaying. In this video, we're breaking down 17 research-backed signs of attraction, from body language cues to changes in behavior that can reveal how someone truly feels.

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20 Comments

@trevorregay9283 3 months ago

Sign #1: Body pointing at you
Sign #2: Distance is reduced towards you
Sign #3: Pupils dilalate
Sign #4: Find excuses to touch you
Sign #5: Mirror your movements
Sign #6: Voice changes around you
Sign #7: Effort to make themselves more visible to you
Sign #8: A fraction longer eye contact than necessary
Sign #9: Laughing more around you
Sign #10: Their face lights up when you enter the room, big smile.
Sign #11: Find reasons to extend conversation
Sign #12: Remember small things you say
Sign #13: Breathing changes around you, increases
Sign #14: Protect you instinctively
Sign #15: Uncomfortable with others interest in you
Sign #16: Tilt their head when you speak, next exposure
Sign #17: They find you immediately when they enter an area you are in

@francisco.Zaragoza 11 days ago

Imagine if I started speaking with an Australian accent and she starts talking with an Australian accent too. That would be a dead giveaway

@chrisg1234fly 7 days ago

sounds like me and therapist, we never stop taking from the second we meet to the last second.....literally.

@rainysummer2146 2 months ago

Maybe his just being nice, he's nice to everyone

@predictmyfuture 2 months ago

Absolutely. A strong relationship is built on mutual trust and respect—not on what someone has in their bank account. 💙

@Longroof616 3 months ago

Well described. I observe and mirror almost all of these behaviours with a friend and it’s both exciting and excruciating at the same time. It feels like we’re both waiting for “the” signal. Arrgh.

@KP-dd2ci 3 months ago

With the whole social referencing, I notice girls who prioritize you will look to your reaction first if something embarrassing or attention seeking happens to them. Like at a table of 12 as wedding guests, a girl will look to you first if she hits her drinking glass against a plate or something.

@robertfreestone414 3 months ago

Everytime a woman was seemly eyeing me during a function (four wedding receptions and a few outdoor family &friends yard parties/barbecues), I always smoothly and subtly adjusted my body posture to obtain better situational awareness and discovered that she was giving the guy slightly behind me the "eye" or sexy gaze.
This maneuver has saved me from numerous possible soul crushing embarrassing situations.

@bvon5630 3 months ago

I think it’s really funny how we can look into your eyes for the whole vid without looking away, and you can look into the camera eye for the whole vid too. But if we were one to one having a cup of coffee, and no one else, it would be really, really weird and uncomfortable to replicate. Maybe there is a thing for body language experts called camera language vs body language😂

@KS-yb1wq 3 months ago

Liz, excellent and concise information. Great video.

@ashishsawant36 3 months ago

Very value generating.

@neuscalvo9351 3 months ago

Nice! And super well explained ❤ I hava a situation that I think follows almost everything minus the fiscal part of it but it's a person extremely not touchy. But the rest... Even end up crying of laughter even when it's not even a joke... Hahahah coould it be that they are not even aware of it, right?
Thank you the the videos!

@adamwilkinson3524 3 months ago

Thank you for preparing and sharing this video I will definitely try these out and be more observant 😊 the tips on how to respond are invaluable for me as I often struggle with how to respond appropriately.. While I think nerves are a part of the whole connection experience, this will calm them down a lot 😊

@sura2047 3 months ago (edited)

I know someone, and he displays every single one of these signs when he’s around me.. so thank you for your content, it gives so much clarity to what I feel.
We are both in separate relationships, but I feel his connection so deeply. Maybe in the next life..

@AndyMi-o6g 3 months ago

This is one of your best videos 👍 pity there are no illustrations...

@timothymerritt6582 2 months ago (edited)

Well, I'm sorry that Australia is out of the tournament. I was pulling for them. Noble effort, however.

@barbarabarlow8825 3 months ago

He always tells me the reason he is there and it's never for my benefit. Sometimes he tells me twice. "I am here to see so and so". "I won't be showing up when the numbers are high". It's almost rude. I just ignore it.

@angelinireland 3 months ago (edited)

There is a man at a coffee shop I am a regular at, and for the past two years, he stares at me so intensely whenever I go in. I have smiled at him but he has never smiled at me. He used to come over and talk to me but if I tried to ask questions or deepen the conversation he would get super nervous and back away. He also sometimes acts really weird, like I will be talking to someone right next to him and he won't look at me. Or, one time I came in, he saw me and just ran out the door. I am so over it.......I thought we had some sort of deep connection but I don't know why he hasn't asked me out. We also drive by each other like every single day.

@immabarbigurl 3 weeks ago

He looked at me a lot but he may just like looking at people lol

@belindahutchinson5333 1 month ago

Great channel!! The only thing I would say I can laugh a lot ( sense of humour) but not be attracted to the man at all. Some people are just funny. However there was one man I liked in my life that said something to me that looking back it wasn't really funny.. it could have almost been an insult but I laughed. If a guy who I wasn't attracted to said the same thing I most likely wouldn't have. However this was only once in my life. It's amazing how men think you are interested in them sexually if you laugh... it's just like laughing with my female friends.