I LOVE LOVE BOMBING 😀😀

Glad to hear trauma bond actually used correctly! It’s not bonding over talking about your trauma is the bond between you and your abuser

She has stolen the diagnosis of every partner she's had. She's performative. She took a narcissist test, lied through half of it, then quit. After watching her for years, it's not bpd, it's narcissism with trauma sprinkled in.

100% she has BPD with narcissistic traits

Dang this video was so good, I wish you could make more of these but I wouldn't know what else to touch upon myself.

If only she knew how sick she really is. Thanks for sharing your perspective

This was a very well done video. 🎉🎉

I have cptsd and bipolar disorder, similar but not the same. Felt and heard. I like your perspective.

Unfortunately I went through this and got out recently. Untreated bpd, npd and substance abuse will have you lost in a maize of emotional torment as the FP in the dynamic. I wished my ex nothing but the best but unfortunately she wasn’t willing to truly get the help she needed.

When I listen to her I literally hear myself... from years ago though, before I knew I had BPD. Now, I still experience limernace but listening to people like her have helped me stop my own spirals and falling into these traps in my own head. Also I hate to say it because I feel most of us BPDers don't do this, at least not with the abusive intention she does, but it's easy to pick up on "how her dad made her mom feel" as someone with BPD. That's literally part of our disorder, we can dissect every little emotion and how it makes someone feel, act and the affect on their bodies. It makes her especially skilled at being abusive.

Omg that view of her looking down at her feet is WILD

I hate how she accuse ppl of SA :/ like it’s been everyone atp and it’s srs but when ppl call her a predator which she is, she wants to cry

16:55 “Feel Good”

oh my god here we go again gorls

She's really not helping with the stigma when she blames her BPD.

THE MOST UNATTRACTIVE TOO

Thank you for this. I have ADHD, Major Depressive Disorder and Generalized Anxiety Disorder so I was able to clock she (very likely) didn't have those...the ADHD arc was especially eyeroll worthy. But always wondered about BPD for both the gorls since that's been thrown around for near a decade now for them. I have minor experience with it from a very brief, very chaotic friendship that likely was with someone with BPD, but beyond that it's been armchair WebMD analysis lol. But absolutely agree on the point about responsibility...what I've heard for ALL mental health issues is "it's not your fault, but it's your responsibility." You didn't do anything to deserve/make yourself this way, but you're ultimately the one responsible for how you affect yourself and other people.

Would you be interested in doing one of these for Foodie? IMO she's even more starkly BPD then Ambie but again, that's my own armchair analysis. IDK if you've come in recently or have been lurking for awhile but I unfortunately have been following Chantal since the Bibi era, so if you need help finding clips I can point you in some directions.

OMG I wish Amber sees this...Then again, she would say it's a LAH 😂😂

She does not have BPD

Jade POV 17:42