Як кайфувати від свого віку? Краса, чоловіки, гроші, конкуренція з жінками і страх старіння
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✨ Inst Olena Zanichkovska: Instagram: zanichkovskao
✨ Inst Olena Paslavska: https://www.instagram.com/paslavska.o...
✨ Inst Natalya Kostyuchenko: https://www.instagram.com/natalikosty...
💡Who are we?
Olena Zanichkovska is a co-founder of AI Experience at The Gradient agency, PhD, an expert in digital product strategy, digital transformation, and building AI-native businesses.
Olena Paslavska — entrepreneur, founder of the Factory Family salon chain, co-founder of Narcissist
Natalia Kostyuchenko — psychiatrist, co-founder of Narcissist and AIM
In this issue, we talk about a woman's maturation and how her attitude towards herself, her appearance, relationships, and life changes with age. What does it mean to be a mature woman in a society where female value is still often associated with youth and beauty?
We analyze where the requirement to always remain beautiful and attractive comes from and how much of it is the desire to be loved, chosen, and approved. Are women really loved for their beauty? What really makes us attractive — appearance, inner state, confidence, fulfillment, or satisfaction with our own lives?
We talk about competition between women, the influence of the environment, and constant comparison of ourselves with others. Why money and time really do matter as you age, but even unlimited opportunities to change your appearance do not guarantee success, love, or a sense of self-worth.
We will talk separately about psychotherapy and how internal changes can even affect how we look and feel. About a full life in which appearance remains important, but ceases to be the only currency of female value.
And also about relationships, money, marriage contracts, and the ability to build a life that does not end with youth. Because perhaps one of the most important changes of growing up is to stop asking if I am beautiful enough to be loved and start asking: do I like the life I live?
0:00 Hello
0:55 How to be a mature woman in our society?
9:17 Is beauty the main value of a woman?
14:10 The environment influences
16:55 Money and time decide
18:00 Psychotherapy makes us beautiful
20:52 What makes us beautiful and attractive?
27:07 Competition with other women
31:20 Are women loved for their beauty?
33:00 Changes in appearance do not make us successful?
36:00 A full life
40:15 Requirements for yourself and the desire to be beautiful so that you are loved
48:15 Sign a marriage contract
59:40 Satisfaction with life
5 Comments
Так приємно і цікаво вас слухати. Бо і тема важлива, і приклади/тези розумні.
Хтось розуміє ці принципи майже від народження, хтось вже в більш пізньому віці. Мені 37 років. Теж погоджуюсь, що дуже важливо до 40 збудувати життя комфортне, мати друзів, однодумців, улюблену справу. Гарного партнера і дітей, якщо хочеться, і якщо так відбудеться 😌 Гарне життя - це життя наповнене. Колесо балансу має бути в балансі 😉😎💜💛🧡🩵💚 Тоді прийде і відчуття задоволеності собою, і менше бажання до інших чіплятись 🙌🏻❤️
Також трохи перебільшено звучить те, що нібито чоловіки там років 50 мають супер високий вибір. Мені здається далеко не кожна дівчина (та і хлопець) років 20-30 бачить себе у стосунках з людиною настільки старше
Але і чоловікам важко, бо одразу питають скільки грошей заробляєш; тиск за те, чи зможеш сімʼю забезпечити. А зараз , в Україні, і тиск за все інше 😔😔😔
На прикладі скандинавських країн видно, що чим безпечніше і щасливіше життя - тим і тиску всякого іншого менше.
Як кайфувати від свого віку? Краса, чоловіки, гроші, конкуренція з жінками і страх старіння
Найтоксичніший в світі подкаст
10,271 views
✨ Inst Olena Zanichkovska: Instagram: zanichkovskao
✨ Inst Olena Paslavska: https://www.instagram.com/paslavska.o...
✨ Inst Natalya Kostyuchenko: https://www.instagram.com/natalikosty...
💡Who are we?
Olena Zanichkovska is a co-founder of AI Experience at The Gradient agency, PhD, an expert in digital product strategy, digital transformation, and building AI-native businesses.
Olena Paslavska — entrepreneur, founder of the Factory Family salon chain, co-founder of Narcissist
Natalia Kostyuchenko — psychiatrist, co-founder of Narcissist and AIM
In this issue, we talk about a woman's maturation and how her attitude towards herself, her appearance, relationships, and life changes with age. What does it mean to be a mature woman in a society where female value is still often associated with youth and beauty?
We analyze where the requirement to always remain beautiful and attractive comes from and how much of it is the desire to be loved, chosen, and approved. Are women really loved for their beauty? What really makes us attractive — appearance, inner state, confidence, fulfillment, or satisfaction with our own lives?
We talk about competition between women, the influence of the environment, and constant comparison of ourselves with others. Why money and time really do matter as you age, but even unlimited opportunities to change your appearance do not guarantee success, love, or a sense of self-worth.
We will talk separately about psychotherapy and how internal changes can even affect how we look and feel. About a full life in which appearance remains important, but ceases to be the only currency of female value.
And also about relationships, money, marriage contracts, and the ability to build a life that does not end with youth. Because perhaps one of the most important changes of growing up is to stop asking if I am beautiful enough to be loved and start asking: do I like the life I live?
0:00 Hello
0:55 How to be a mature woman in our society?
9:17 Is beauty the main value of a woman?
14:10 The environment influences
16:55 Money and time decide
18:00 Psychotherapy makes us beautiful
20:52 What makes us beautiful and attractive?
27:07 Competition with other women
31:20 Are women loved for their beauty?
33:00 Changes in appearance do not make us successful?
36:00 A full life
40:15 Requirements for yourself and the desire to be beautiful so that you are loved
48:15 Sign a marriage contract
59:40 Satisfaction with life