If women want to date, they must let their guard down and stop bringing relationship baggage into the new dating situation.
The new guy is not accountable for previous disappointments or traumas.
If she can't trust a man right away, she can't date, period.

I would rather be single and alone with myself, safe, secure, and mostly at peace. At my advanced age, and having been in multiple relationships before, I realized calm waters rule!  If a woman can walk side by side with her man without cause and in doing so, compliment the union. Grand! I worry for the future of marriage with the way things are.

I had a female interested in me and said later on same day....

If i wanted kids...she wasn't the one. Lol

Shes the one who chatted me up and although I wasn't keen giving her my number...I thought..what the hell lol

Anyway when she said that about not having no more kids so I asked I dont want any but in reality...I would never want to breed her anyway!!!!

I later found out she had 4 kids and the youngest was 4 years old and 4 baby daddies.

How delusional i thought...

OMG..

Total bonkers..

I ended up blocking her the next day after 1 meet!!!!!!!

What a deluded ......!!!!!!!  Lol

Men have seen your socials for the last 6 years, go review them and ask would date or even go near that attitudes.

Don't get a divorce

Try being a less than average guy in his fifties.  It's practically non-existent.😢😢