Honestly, I would have just cancelled everything. If the daughter was capable of such a selfish attitude, I wouldn't want to be there at the wedding. If I am not welcomed in her life, just leave. Especially after every sacrifice he had already made for her during the years.
This is probably the best one of these stories I’ve listened to. His response was so methodical and hit them right where it would hurt the worst. Love it.
Would tell them the doctor can pay for the wedding since they want me out and still pay? Heck no would also tell them let the lawyer can pay since they can also pay for it.
Nobody opens the door without looking to see who it is!! That mess needs to stop because it's not realistic, especially when people are not on your side!!
Why is OP messing about 'altering' contracts? F-that, what you do is, CANCEL the contracts, even if it costs you penalties and go full NC with everyone associated with un-inviting you. The reality is, they don't want you, so grant them their wish.
Don't want me to come? Fine.... then dont expect me to pay for anything, or even stay in contact afterwards. Also, why do people insist on their elaborate weddings? I find that people like that only want the "party", and not the marriage.