Hayatını Kim Yönetiyor? Ailen mi, Sen mi? | Aşkım Kapışmak
Cansu Canan Özgen
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You think you make your own decisions. But are you still seeking your family's approval in your choices? What rules from childhood are you carrying over into your relationships, your career, and your relationship with money?
In this episode of Inner Voice, Cansu Canan Özgen and Aşkım Kapışmak have a candid conversation about family relationships, the need for approval, jealousy, envy, and manipulation. They discuss forgetting our own needs while trying to meet the expectations of others, the meanings we attach to success and wealth, and why we find it difficult to break away from relationships that don't benefit us.
Does everyone who wants what's best for you also want you to become stronger? At what point do you put your own life on hold while supporting your family? How many of the choices you think are your own are actually shaped by what you were taught?
The conversation extends from individual relationships to social solidarity; it also questions role models, parenting, the culture of ostentation, and the importance of building genuine connections.
SECTIONS
00:00 Beginning
01:46 Who sets the rules that govern our lives?
03:25 Why are we still waiting for the approval of others?
04:40 If countries are like families, what kind of family is Turkey?
09:48 Why does jealousy and envy grow in close circles?
14:29 When does "I want it too" turn into "They shouldn't have it either"?
16:09 Who should young people take as role models?
23:33 Prejudices against successful women
24:17 Why would someone who wants you to be successful not want you to be rich?
27:22 Does your environment help you develop or keep you where you are?
30:26 The most common manipulations used in family and relationships
32:38 The undervalued person who carries the burden of the family
35:03 On parenthood and healthy relationships
38:04 Parents who are jealous of their own children
42:22 Justice and honesty: How much do we take care of ourselves? 44:24 How does our relationship with money begin in childhood?
45:32 Does the one who earns more have the final say in a relationship? 50:31 The culture of ostentation and the solidarity we've lost
53:59 Gratitude versus comparing yourself to others
57:13 Does saying something 40 times make it happen?
58:52 People who constantly remind us of the good deeds they've done
59:56 Why can't we break away from people who aren't good for us?
01:00:49 Can you do something just for yourself?
01:01:27 Why can't we stay in good moods for long?
01:01:54 Identity, personality, and self-discovery
01:04:37 The cycle of violence and the importance of good role models
01:06:42 The difference between doing a task and building a real connection
01:10:47 How does social media affect our inner world?
#AşkımKapışmak #CansuCananÖzgen #InnerVoice #FamilyRelationships #PersonalDevelopment
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Hayatını Kim Yönetiyor? Ailen mi, Sen mi? | Aşkım Kapışmak
Cansu Canan Özgen
36,983 views
You think you make your own decisions. But are you still seeking your family's approval in your choices? What rules from childhood are you carrying over into your relationships, your career, and your relationship with money?
In this episode of Inner Voice, Cansu Canan Özgen and Aşkım Kapışmak have a candid conversation about family relationships, the need for approval, jealousy, envy, and manipulation. They discuss forgetting our own needs while trying to meet the expectations of others, the meanings we attach to success and wealth, and why we find it difficult to break away from relationships that don't benefit us.
Does everyone who wants what's best for you also want you to become stronger? At what point do you put your own life on hold while supporting your family? How many of the choices you think are your own are actually shaped by what you were taught?
The conversation extends from individual relationships to social solidarity; it also questions role models, parenting, the culture of ostentation, and the importance of building genuine connections.
SECTIONS
00:00 Beginning
01:46 Who sets the rules that govern our lives?
03:25 Why are we still waiting for the approval of others?
04:40 If countries are like families, what kind of family is Turkey?
09:48 Why does jealousy and envy grow in close circles?
14:29 When does "I want it too" turn into "They shouldn't have it either"?
16:09 Who should young people take as role models?
23:33 Prejudices against successful women
24:17 Why would someone who wants you to be successful not want you to be rich?
27:22 Does your environment help you develop or keep you where you are?
30:26 The most common manipulations used in family and relationships
32:38 The undervalued person who carries the burden of the family
35:03 On parenthood and healthy relationships
38:04 Parents who are jealous of their own children
42:22 Justice and honesty: How much do we take care of ourselves? 44:24 How does our relationship with money begin in childhood?
45:32 Does the one who earns more have the final say in a relationship? 50:31 The culture of ostentation and the solidarity we've lost
53:59 Gratitude versus comparing yourself to others
57:13 Does saying something 40 times make it happen?
58:52 People who constantly remind us of the good deeds they've done
59:56 Why can't we break away from people who aren't good for us?
01:00:49 Can you do something just for yourself?
01:01:27 Why can't we stay in good moods for long?
01:01:54 Identity, personality, and self-discovery
01:04:37 The cycle of violence and the importance of good role models
01:06:42 The difference between doing a task and building a real connection
01:10:47 How does social media affect our inner world?
#AşkımKapışmak #CansuCananÖzgen #InnerVoice #FamilyRelationships #PersonalDevelopment