“Now if you’re filled with Saturn and extra boring yourself you’re probably going to love this” HAHAHA you got me

As a traditional person, this is my literal dream

I know a very happy couple has some aspests:
Sun conjunct pluto
Moon conjunct saturn
Pluto sextile venus
Neptune conjunct venus
Uranus sextile venus
They still love each other until they are old. 😊😊😊

You look very pretty in this video! Love the lip color and the way you styled your hair.😊

It seems to me this could be an ideal aspect in a Pluto heavy relationship, providing a sense of safety and stability as an opportunity to work out all those subconscious issues that will come up. With that placement you DON'T want to go with 'natural understanding' when you talk about things so deep, you need to actually hear the words to understand the other person instead of assuming you innately understand and thus pushing an element of control onto them. By having to listen we allow ourselves the opportunity to empathize without control which IMO is the hardest element in dealing with 8th house issues between two people.

When uranus and pluto also adds to this,  it definitely ain't boring.. its actually like a rollercoaster 😆  ...

I actually really like this one. It makes me feel like the other person is truly dedicated to knowing how im feeling, and vice versa.  I can see how it can feel like your trapped, and like ur doing it out of obligation.... but for the most part this one feels solid too me. I have it with my work bestie.

I have this with my SO of 8 years; our composite moon/saturn conj is trine our sun/mercury/mars conjunction. And yes, we do have these meetings where we check in and make sure everything is okay, exactly like Jewel said! BUT the huge difference in this relationship is that we both genuinely takes the steps needes to make everything okay if it is not! It not just empty promises! I absolutely love it. We also have a Venus/Jupiter conj in the 9th that I think helps alleviate the stagnation a bit? Thankful at 8 years in neither of us have outgrown each other. Thanks for another awesome video, Jewel <3

King & Queen relationship😅.

1 million percent correct and resonates and thats even for the synastry aspect...

How do you see moon conjunct saturn in synastry? Is it really harsh aspect? Thanks!

With my moon/Venus in Pisces this conjunction in the composite makes me feel emotionally empty, frustrated.
As you said intuition doesn’t flow between the two people and everything must be communicate to work well.
I feel there is not space to dream a bit 😁 everything it works so well as a practical/rational process but no space to fly/progress.
Gratitude amazing video 💖

I really want to cry but can't because whatever, (sounds like this)... We have this in aquarius 10th.
Usually I express my feelings and needs but with this man... emotional blocks are real.

True emotional alienation. Also this squares close pluto 7th north node in scorpio.

Thank you Jewel for this analysis. I've been romanticizing about someone I haven't officially met on the job. Typical Pisces ☀️. He and I have virtually no complimentary aspects. His Saturn conjuncts my moon within 1 degree in my 2nd house. He's older, established and financially well off. That's really the draw, however, I dread feeling repressed in any relationship for long so I'll let my fantasies dissipate.Thanks again!

You  are amazing astrologer 😙😙

We do take notes about our needs 💜 I love that about him. We also have moon conjunct Jupiter and juno. All in 12th house.

Me and him both with a Pisces moon: “watch this” 😂. We are both extremely intuitive

Every relationship whether platonic or romantic in my life has ALWAYS had Saturn opposite moon in composite.  Always.  Saturn doesn't move much so it's hard to find people that will not cause this in my composites.

Omg yes , me and this guy i just met have Pluto conjunct Venus and mercury and sun conjunct Venus in 8 house then we have moon conjunct Saturn in 1st , lol we work together and he was giving me orientation , we knew we really like each other right away , it was very deep, but it’s been a while and we both don’t know how to show each other, I was thinking we are going to have to sit down and just tell each other

I know a lot of people that are currently in a relationship (and are into astrology) might have an urge to defend even the harshest aspects/charts, but I do think that, as with anything, it really depends on the context. My partner and I have it in pisces, 1st house. What this aspect manifests as for us is a carefulness around each other, and with each other. And also a deep sense of emotional commitment. Carefulness/blockage however has its positive sides because without it our composite and natal charts are very pluto-moon-neptune-12th-and-4th house heavy. We do end up being very vulnerable with each other - but in a mature, considerate way, which is necessary for us because if we didn't embody the moon conjunct saturn traits, we'd probably end up saying things we'd regret, and be a lot more temperamental with each other because our relationship forces us to deal with our baggage, and unpacking that with a partner in the moment can be a rather ugly process where the other person's feelings are typically not the priority. So, instead of thinking it as an overall and unyielding blockage in being able to relate to each other emotionally, it may be better to think of it as a weight over the moon that sometimes has its advantages and disadvantages but does turn out to be a recurring theme in a relationship, which can be both good and bad, whether it's more good or bad, and whether the bad can be consciously worked upon, depends on the people involved.