Are you worried about someone close to you who is always pointing out small details?

There are people who are always looking for faults in others.

If you try to change yourself based on their opinions...

You'll end up getting tired of their endless opinions.

Why do they always look for faults?

We'll explain everything from the reasons to how to deal with them.

We hope you find it useful.

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▼Table of Contents▼

0:00 Today's Theme
0:43 ① Focusing only on other people's flaws
2:34 ② Wanting to say you're right and how amazing you are
4:13 ③ Not wanting to change
6:14 ④ Expecting perfection from others
8:08 Solution ① Asking about your own strengths
10:18 Solution ② Being confident with your other strengths
12:52 Solution ③ Leaving, walking away
14:47 Summary: Today's Key Points

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●"No need to take them seriously" 7 useful phrases from people you shouldn't get involved with
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●No need to get serious! The psychology of people who look down on others and 3 ways to deal with them
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●No need to be scared anymore! The psychology of people who suddenly yell or get angry and 3 ways to deal with them
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Brief Profile
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Ryota

Born in 1984. Studied healing music, hearing, psychology, gender studies, etc. during college (Bachelor of Arts).

A severe HSP himself, he has changed jobs five times and experienced relationship difficulties.

He holds multiple titles, including mental health counselor, behavioral psychologist, composer, and lecturer. He is a father of two children.

Runs "The HSP Textbook," a consultation center and lifestyle resource for HSPs.
His books are currently on sale nationwide through KADOKAWA, SB Creative, and Asuka Publishing.
Runs "Cocoiro Salon," a community for HSPs, and holds various events.

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