If you all haven’t figured it out Rae’s love language is gift giving. Also she really likes to take care of people who work for her. She has said this in the past. They are just joking around here but she literally pays for mom and sister to live life however they want and not have to work. She has bought them multiple houses and has yet to buy one for herself. I think if this makes her happy to spend her money on people around her then she can she is a grown woman who works very hard.