I was told for the longest time that it was "proven" he didn't assault anyone only to later find out that his fans just think anyone who can't provide video evidence of their assault must be lying.

As someone who had issues with an ex (I dont want to go into detail), its very normal to not talk about or tell people about what happened to you for months. The argument that it must be fake bc she didnt talk about it is stupid and ignorant. Thank you for coming to my ted talk

I do believe April.

If Toby was innocent, and truly did nothing wrong, then why would he constantly lie and change his story? If everyone close to him is saying consistent things about his horrible behavior and drug issues, then what happened in private? Also, just because his other partners were never sexually assaulted, it doesn’t mean that it couldn’t have happened to one person he was intimate with.

April not going to the police is pretty common among survivors of rape, because the police do not take rape cases seriously, and it’s traumatizing to have to recount your story to a court of people who don’t believe you.

I'm inclined to believe Toby did assault April. On a livestream for the movie Sharknado, Toby tried to force a kiss on another youtuber Shira. If he did that live I can't imagine what he did behind closed doors.

Dude didn’t even do a right wing pivot, he did a whole right wing u turn 😬

“Kinda romantic we watching this together” no who are you and how are you in my house.

Saying "there's no evidence" AND "she told the internet instead of the police" as lack of credibility for her story is low-key against common sense. The police won't do shit and probably laugh at her

The moment he got sexual assault allegations that may or may’ve NOT been legit, he snapped and never looked back

“my fault for not clarifying that colleen hoover is not colleen ballinger” it’s so not your fault people thought that 😂

in regards to the point of her not going to the police and going to tumblr, the majority of sexual violence cases in the US justice system barely make it anywhere, and even then you have to go within 24 hours or else the test kit is completely useless. I think its given someone who was drugged and experienced sexual violence would struggle to go to authorities in regards to someone as famous as toby let alone someone in general knowing how absolutely useless the US justice system is when it comes to sex crimes within the NEXT DAY of an extremely traumatic event with as much build up as there was as well

Nothing better than clicking on the video hoping he greets you in your language

the fuzzy timeline being a reason to not believe april is also so dumb??? how many ppl can even remember accurate timelines to traumatic experiences? i know i can't. it irks me. and like the calling her obsessive feels odd in the sense of assuming what she said about the relationship is true that's kinda a normal reaction to the situation???? maybe i'm biased bc of personal experiences myself, but none of the reasons she could be lying even seem that credible compared to reasonings for why she could be being truthful to me

Toby used (I'm actually pretty sure he still does) live in my old town and frequented a sports grill there, a bunch of people I went to school with who worked there used to take pictures with him all the time. He was a terrible customer, flirted with girl servers who were clearly high schoolers, and tipped like absolute shit if he tipped at all. They hated him there

love how we're all consensually watching this together

Drugs fried his brain and now hes in a state of AI psychosis. What a pathetic man

I’m a DV survivor, and my abuser continues to walk the world free. She still has her career and friends, family. The police wouldn’t even let me file a report unless they talked to HER too. The only punishment she received was knowing what she did, which is why even after I got out, she would go on to cyber-stalk and haunt me for four years. One of the biggest reasons someone doesn’t come forward at the time is they get that first doubt. That first time someone doesn’t believe them. And then they feel alone. So they’d rather just get out and hide from the fear.

Love how you use a different language every vid!! guess i better stick around to see mine eventually 😛

26:44 i will say, when it comes to trauma, the brain jumbles and mixes up memories and times. i have like 2 straight years of fuzzy memory due to an extended trauma i went through myself. obviously it's still unclear which is the truth but either way, cheating drugging etc is unforgivable and he still shouldn't have a platform

33:11 as a they them, I can confirm that us and the rest of the queer community have a cult where we send subliminal messages to people to start being more gay

If you're ever going to use 'Ōlelo Hawai'i in your intro, don't just say "aloha", say "Aloha mai kākou!" It's the proper way to greet a large audience, as kākou means us (3+ people) including the speaker and including the person you're speaking to. Basically, "Hello to us all!" Or "Hello everyone!"

More fun vocab of 'Ōlelo Hawai'i: if you want to say us (3+ people) without including the audience, you say mākou, meaning us, but not you. It gets rid of confusion when you say something like, "We're going to get icecream!" where the person you're speaking to might not understand if they're involved.

'Ōlelo Hawai'i is such an interesting language and I highly recommend learning it! A really good place to start is the book "Ka Lei Ha'aheo Beginning Hawaiian" by  Alberta Pualani Hopkins, and can be found relatively cheap.