I've noticed how much our moms will  abuse us, tear us down, embarrass us, but treat the sons like gold😢

If your own mother hates you she hates herself, thats just what it is ,very sad

The fact that their are moms out there that have had very traumatic childhood that are good mothers lets me know that its a choice so no excuses everyone has trauma

My mother has envied me my entire life. I remember her saying I think I’m better than everyone when I was a teenager. Like girl, I’m 15. What are you even talking about?

It’s deep when your mother tells you that her other child is her favorite on her sick bed while you are caring for her and that child is no where around. We are some hurt people.

I’m a black man who witnessed how my mother treated my sisters way worse than me…I’m really glad that you’re having this conversation….

My mother was my biggest bully growing up. She abused me physically, mentally and emotionally. I forgave her and tried to have a relationship with her. I'm 47, she's still toxic so I had to cut her off my life. Meanwhile, she treats my brothers who are all losers like gold. Sad indeed 😢

Clearly "Claire Huxtable" was so beloved because a lot of us longed for a mother like her, myself included.

My mom was my first heartbreak still don’t speak to her till this day and I envy women that have a great relationship with their moms 😔

Ladies keep going. Our mothers dont define us.

Black Sheep United!  We are finally speaking out!

It's because they never liked themselves and are jealous that their daughters came out looking more beautiful than they did.  I have two daughters and still struggle to understand how a mother could hate their own daughter.  I look at my daughters in awe all the time.  They're absolutely amazing and beautiful

This conversation is deeeeeeeeeeeep!!!! My mother is in a wheelchair at this moment resulting from a stroke. I love her. I don’t hate her. But I simply cannot wipe her ass. I was verbally mentally emotionally and physically abused all of my life. She even allowed her siblings to treat me horribly. But my brother was her golden child. I forgave her but simply CANNOT bend over backwards to come to her rescue. I am now a mother and I strive daily to be better than she ever was. I hug my kids. I speak positively to my kids. I tell them I love them. I protect them. I nurture them. I never make differences in them. I went through therapy. I am now at a place where I can tell her I love her and call her beautiful. Things she never did to me. I tried to hug her and she pushed me away. She told me she loved me for the first time after God put her in that wheelchair. My brother…The golden child…WILL NOT HELP HER!!! Yet my family…her toxic abusive narcissistic siblings expect me the one they abused to come save the day. I’m not doing it. I’ll FaceTime her but I have no desire to wipe her ass.

My mother resented me because my father didn't want to be with her, and she took it out on me. She lied about who he was, preventing me from ever meeting him. She only revealed the truth after he had died, along with many other hurtful things. I've cut her off for good. Sadly, I had to mourn the parents I never had, but now I can finally heal.

I’m 42. My mother died three years ago and I realized three years ago my mother hated and resented my entire existence. I wasn’t looked at as a daughter. I was looked at as competition as an inconvenience as an annoyance as a tool

Glad this is being talked about.

Ladies, please don't let ANYONE tell you how you feel about someone, including your mother. Your feelings are valid.

To me, it is sad how many of us relate to this. Including myself.

My mom died two years ago, before she passed she finally apologized to me for how bad she treated me/ beat me/ hated me/ embarrassed me/ she said she was jealous of the woman I was. She said I was the girl growing up she ALWAYSSSSSSS wanted to be, she also told me that she knew outta her 3-kids I was the strongest one. She said she hated how I never needed her like my sister and brother. I NEEDED THAT. It helped me become the woman I am today, maybe if she would have said it earlier we woulda had a better relationship, but mommas please tell your daughter you love them. Life is SO SHORT❤

Because they’re jealous! And our brothers are their son husbands!

I'm glad this dark secret is finally being talked about...my grandmother hated my mother & her kids, the hatred ran soo  deep