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He told her about one child—but left out a baby who was just three months old when they started dating. When the baby’s mother contacted her on Facebook, his explanation was that he had been a “sperm donor.”

After investing two years in the relationship, she walked away. Now he has resumed a relationship with that family in another city, and she’s struggling with something she admits openly: she wants to see him get his karma.

She asks the panel how to release the anger, revealing that even conversations involving both families hadn’t stopped the deception. Kira challenges her to consider whether waiting for his downfall is costing her peace, while the panel pushes the conversation toward accountability, faith, and healing after betrayal.

Leaving the relationship was one decision. Letting go of what happened is another.

Can you truly move on while you’re still waiting for the person who hurt you to suffer?

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20 Comments

@DerickGMan 3 days ago

If you're a believer... PLEASE say a prayer for this woman. May God bless all of you. ❤

@ChondaK-g7v 2 days ago

Her vulnerability helped many people receive a well needed message.

@DonnaBrown-x9r 3 days ago

She trusted him and he betrayed her heart.

@lindaupchurch3916 3 days ago (edited)

Truth! After 26 years of marriage that ended in divorce because of infidelity. MY goal is to not too destroy his peace, but to find my peace.

@alisonassanah-carroll1957 2 days ago

Kittie, you are the perfect balance to this panel! You spoke to her pain, soul, and intellect, enabling her to release what she had been harboring in her heart for so long! All praises be to God. ❤

@TRNSCNDStudios 3 days ago

This was a real one. I can feel the vulnerability in her to go up there. Not for show, not to go viral. She wanted real

@alisonassanah-carroll1957 2 days ago (edited)

"The goal is not to destroy their peace, it's to find yours." Whew! 🔥

@joymichelle6471 3 days ago (edited)

Truth be told, what often looks happy from the outside, is often hell behind close doors

@karynmartin2141 3 days ago

Her emotions and feels got caught tangled up in him she fell into And he played in her face and with her heart 💔

@sunkisseddrsow 3 days ago

Coming from someone who had to heal from a very hard heartbreak. Heal & get close to God. Their karma is the cycle they are left in. God has doors opening for you, but you have to be in a place to receive. You deserve better. Better will come. & right your wrongs with any person you’ve hurt in your past. Weaknesses build strength.

@tracigray9693 3 days ago

I’m with Kitty. I have never believed in Karma.

@thearlenefiles 3 days ago

You know, sometimes the things we cry over turn out to be blessings in disguise. She may not realize it now, but perhaps God saved her from discovering this years down the line, after she had invested so much more time, love, resources, vows, and even had children with him. Imagine discovering his infidelity after 10 years of marriage with children involved. The pain would have been on a completely different level.
But I totally understand her pain right now.

@SLUBUG 2 days ago

I am going through this betrayal right now. Married 8 years with a baby and I found out he has been having an ongoing affair. I feel her pain. These men really try to destroy you

@Chaseieday7555 3 days ago

It's a good thing that the relationship lasted for only two years and you didn't enter into a marriage.

@mariasarria1757 2 days ago

this one hurt.. I pray she finds her freedom and ger peace.. cried along with her while Kitty spoke.

@DesireeT1973 3 days ago

Thanks Kitty. And the whole panel for allowing God to be apart is this show❤❤❤

@deeabbott7498 3 days ago

I disagree! People who do intentionally wrong things to other people DO NOT go on to have happy lives. Just b/c we don’t see it doesn’t mean it’s not happening. Focus on moving on with your life and getting the good you deserve. That’s the best revenge.

@EVP-pz9io 3 days ago

Man this one got me emotional. I felt her pain.

@malaikahansen 2 days ago

I woke up this morning praying for God to remove pain, jealous, bitterness, hate, revenge ......because I want to be as pure as I can be before God. So for me to came across this, I believe God is speaking to me to work deeper on what I desire