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“Don’t ENFJs like sweet people?”

No. They are much pickier than you might think and have much more realistic standards.

On the surface, they are kind to everyone and empathetic, but deep down, they are the type who envision the relationship with that person one year, five years, and even ten years from now.

That is why ENFJs often hear, “He’s such a good person, why aren’t you seeing him?”, but in reality, they have already finished distinguishing between dating, friendship, and long-term partnership in their minds.

In this video, we will realistically explore the true dating standards of an ENFJ.

✔ Not just a kind person, but someone with whom you can ‘give and receive’ emotions

✔ Not someone who only leans on you, but someone who lives their own life

✔ Not someone who is good only at the beginning, but someone whose words and actions are consistent

✔ Not a relationship that is only enjoyable today, but someone with whom you can grow together

And one important point.

An ENFJ's ideal type is not high, but

closer to an “essential standard.”

That is why they are more cautious, and that is why they do not open their hearts easily.

📌 Ultimately, what an ENFJ is looking for is not

a “romantic partner,” but

someone with whom they can stake their life.

If you find yourself repeating similar patterns in your relationships,

or if you have been curious about an ENFJ's mindset,

this video will help you redefine your standards.

👉 Your ideal type is the direction of your life.

Try writing it down seriously today.

0:00 An ENFJ who knows ‘people’ all too well

0:55 What is the structure of an ENFJ's mind..? 2:08 ENFJ's Ideal Type 1. Someone who knows how to share emotions

4:02 ENFJ's Ideal Type 2. Someone who has their own life

5:24 ENFJ's Ideal Type 3. Someone whose words and actions are consistent

6:24 ENFJ's Ideal Type 4. Someone who grows together

7:38 ENFJ... Aren't you being too picky?

9:22 Things you should absolutely never do to an ENFJ / Things you should do

10:29 An ENFJ's ideal type is finding their life partner

11:10 Your standard for an ideal type is the direction of your life

11:53 Outro

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