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We are not perfectionists. We just see a better solution. Others are either lazy or didn't get what could be than what is.

Intjs hate stupidity, inefficient. Infjs worry about people. People constantly fail, and repeat patterns. You can't fix stupid.

Damn, that's why I feel like an impulsive kid trying to be social.

it's a far heavier burden than most people can possibly even imagine.

That's a fantastic video that explains our sufferings so clearly.

But yet the problem remains that others don't accept us to be who we are most of the time, precisely because we seem so different from everyone they've ever met. There is a strange think that people don't accept to not understand and be okay with it.

Some people might find it weird to be sad when you hear you're special and not like everyone else because most people crave to be unique right? Yet that isolates you from everyone else cause that means they don't relate to you and you're not ordinary to them and that in itself hurts. To not be ordinary hurts. To be special comes with unrelatability and loneliness.

But it makes sense that INFJs and INTJs think they're the problem. Usually when something goes wrong, the obvious conclusion is that this person is not doing something right. How could one begin to think they're in the right and everyone else is misunderstanding them unless they're incredibly pretentious? How could even someone believe it to begin with and not think it's incredibly pedantic if you try to explain it to them? This way we can see how easy it is to think that the 2 INJ types are incredibly pedantic when in reality they're absolutely not more than anyone else on average. It's a total misunderstanding that creates this impression.

The problem is though that other personalities don't particularly need to find a fitting environment where their skills will be valued because they constitute so much more percentage of the population and the population is made to more or less answer their needs. For this reason a INJ behavior comes off as so atypical and out of this world. One thing is for sure, if there was more INJ personalities, the world would be radically different. They wouldn't have to feel so different because they wouldn't be in the eyes of people. Their behavior would be much more common than it is. There is not a thing that is inherently special about INJ types. They're just special out of circumstances.

Intuition in itself is a thing that we don't quite understand as humans, so how could we even begin to understand people who lead with it in their lives? Now imagine being one of these people and understanding yourself when no one, even usual professionals are really capable to explain who you are in detail because what you are is partially unknown to them and so much more different than everyone they've seen in their studies? You can't even trust them. You have to exclusively rely on yourself to understand who you are because your personality is kinda ground breaking.

Some people accuse INFJs to be fake and not their authentic self around others, but the reason for that is simply that they don't comprehend their full authentic self to begin with. So they have no other choice but to tone it down in the presence of others to still succeed to engage in social relationships. That's how critical the reality is. For this reason, accusing them of not being fully themselves is unfair, because their lack of understanding is the very reason for why they can't be. Thankfully certain people just accept to tolerate this part of mystery in their life and live with it (even though on the INJs' side there has never been any mystery). What they are just is mysterious to others.

Thank you 🙏🏻🙏🏻

I am INTJ+ infp

Been an INTJ my whole life. I was a non conformist in the 80’s and I don’t know how else to exist. I live by the moto “to thine own self be true”. Which sounds like wisdom, except most people don’t actually live that way. Most are simply creatures of habit that don’t examine the “why’s” of a thing or situation. Most just accept reality as it is without seeing the possibilities of something better. Most people believe in free will, but then act fatalistic. As though the world as it is has always been this way and will always be this way. That you can’t actually change the nature of the beast. It’s maddening to me and yes, I feel very lonely. Some days I just want to scream at the world to “stop”. Just stop. We can find a better way, and yet, we just continue down the same paths of our ancestors, never questioning their logic because we revere them for religious or socialital reasons.  Sigh. I really want a better future for ALL of mankind. I really do. It is my driving force. It has been an all consuming drive of my inner thought life. I see the patterns. Literally, in my minds eye I see forms and world lines. I see convergence and synthesis. I see so much it’s scary. To me so much of current events are predictable. I wish someone would prove me wrong. I hate being right. No, I don’t feel vindicated when my predictions come true, I feel sadness that wisdom wasn’t listened to. That I now have to watch you suffer because you didn’t listen to my advice does not bring my joy. When I say I told you so; it’s not ego, it’s only a reminder that I tried to warn you. Unfortunately that is usually not how I am perceived and lose many relationships over it. It can be a lonely existence, but I know no other way of being. To me the biggest “sin” of the human race is all of the waste of human potential. So many possibilities never realized. The Schordinger cat definitely dies in the box that is never opened.

It seems to me that INXJs need puzzles, riddles, scream/fury rooms, absurd and sarcastic humor, pets, apprentices and occasional firecrackers — to feel better in their own skins.

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Alle introverts machen das Gegenteil ihrer Endungen..wichtig zu verstehen..😅🎉😊

Im otrovert tipe INFJ 😌🙏🍀
Salam Indonesia 🇮🇩

INFJ, sufrimiento emocional e intelectual, no solamente emocional.