In the end you have two choices. Change yourself to attract the women you want or be yourself and seek out the woman that wants you.

I feel like all these videos are the equivalent of "how to make your resume look better" so it doesn't get rejected in a quarter of a second

this aint fung bros this is fung bro...

This video got my subscription. I’ve seen way too many geeky looking Asians and I’m  glad there are guys out there giving glow up advices.

Stop obsessing over women that don't give you look. There are other things to do in life. Being in relationship and running a family is not an easy task. What's the use if you going to get divorced in future be single again.

I love how your videos are always honest, straight to the point and keeping it real

This really bothers me.  My question as an ABC female is what types of women are these guys trying to date?  I think a bunch of them are good-looking.  I don't want them to be something they're not.

My husband is Asian has  always had a great smile and good personality, played football and women just liked him and he is very smart.  Be yourself there is a lid for every pot .Bookish Eastcoast Brunette

Yoooo I made it to your video hahaha big fan thanks for including my picture (I’m the bald guy at 11:28) 😂

FYI finasteride and minoxidil helped me tremendously and I’m no longer bald 😊

I should also point out sometimes it not always an issue with your character but your lifestyle and being trapped in the daily routine where you don't meet new people. It's good to reflect but also don't be too overly self conscious when you don't need to be. Just change your habits, go to new places, find new socials circles if everyone around you is taken.

In my experience. Its not the looks. I'm not trying to be playing into the stereotype. But I think women are looking for someone who makes effort. Some of them are too shy. Won't make a move even when me and friends make it first. Asking for their number etc. I already made a move. They don't text back. etc. maybe me and friends aren't for them. Who knows. That's fine. But I hear from common friends that arent asian that the guy likes my friend yet thinks she will just fall into his lap. I think a lot of guys complaining could just do more and be more engaging.

Good stuff David.

Why is the aesthetic you choose always based around deciding which women you will attract. Your style and what you like should be an extension of your interests. Kinda embarrassing having Asian men asking online which they should chose or their glow ups. Be in shape and a well read/styled person aligned with what you actually like. There will be a girl in every remit you pursue you just have to be within the top of those spaces.

I’ve known all types of asian guys of all shapes and sizes with quality relationships.  It really just comes down to comfort.  It’s a chicken and the egg thing but being comfortable around women vs being an insecure panicky weirdo is what it comes down to.  I think a lot of it stems from relationship with the mother and also having a sister probably helps.  I’ve honestly never met a guy with a sister who couldn’t get a girlfriend.  It’s not impossible to overcome if you don’t come with the upbringing advantage but you’ll have to make up for it with a lot of time and effort.  Guys think it’s all about status, that’s true only in terms of the type of women you naturally pair up with but you have women to pair up with at every status level, you just need to know how to interract with them.

That said gotta disagree. Mad respect for the lighting department. Dont diss them lol

The higher ranked guys look like they eat a clean healthy diet while practicing good hygiene by washing their hands, face and hair on the regular. A decent haircut matching the shape of a guy's face and features is worth a lot more than expensive clothes. Most of them have the potential to be attractive.

I think your hair is the most important thing to fix if you're a guy. It's the first thing a girls really gonna notice other then your height which you can't change but you can change your hair. Even if you got muscles and abs you aint gonna be shirtless all day.

Some men and women are just better off single sometimes dating just isn't for everyone for many reasons. No need for race or genetics to play a factor if one person or the other cant accept because its not there preference move on to someone else.

A lot of my fellow ABC cousins all have boyfriends that are mostly white or hispanic. I remember asking them in the past why they don't date other Asian guys and their response would always be something along the lines of, "Oh, they try too hard to act tough" or "They're too fobby, I'm not interested". But yeah, I don't know. It's a brutal world out there for us Asian dudes, that's all I have to say. All we can do is be the best version of ourselves and if they like us, they like us.

Wow the standards are low or I'm not doing too bad. I think I started at level 1 at the 0 to 2.5 mark . Judging by this video I am now in the level 4 group. I've done a lot of work to glow up. Consistent gym is probably the biggest factor. I truly think gym is a non negotiable for all guys