ЧОМУ ЛЮДИ ВІДЧУВАЮТЬ СЕБЕ САМОТНІМИ У ПАРІ? | Ілона Довгань та Світлана Шумська
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WHY DO PEOPLE FEEL LONELY IN A COUPLE?
DOES LONELINESS DESTROY OR SAVE?
This is what Ilona Dovgan and Svitlana Shumska, clinical psychologist, family psychotherapist, talked about today.
Watch the new episode of OnlineTherapy and learn about the following:
✔️ What is loneliness? “I am alone” is about loneliness?
✔️ How does having children change relationships?
✔️ How do toxic relationships destroy a person? When is it worth getting a divorce?
✔️ What do Ukrainians who have left feel? How to help yourself in another country?
✔️ What is codependency? Why can’t you fill your own emptiness with another person?
Subscribe to our channel @onlineterapiya 🩵
Also listen to programs on the air of radio “KrainaFM”.
Follow us on social networks:
Instagram www.instagram.com/onlineterapiya_official
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Or listen to the podcast https://bit.ly/3RoUjMy
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01:30 - What is loneliness?
02:20 - When do people get divorced?
03:05 - The main meeting in life with yourself.
06:00 - Relationships. What can I give?
07:30 - The appearance of children radically changes relationships.
09:00 - What traumas do people come into relationships with?
13:03 - Ukrainians who are forced to leave feel not only loneliness, but also isolation.
14:10 - How to help yourself to those who are currently abroad?
19:50 - Loneliness is a trauma.
20:20 - How does traumatic loneliness manifest itself?
21:00 - The difference between loneliness and seclusion.
23:00 - Support groups. A problem divided into two is no longer the same.
24:30 - Feeling lonely when you have a partner.
29:45 - How do toxic relationships destroy a person?
32:20 - A person needs a person.
35:20 - When the phrase "what will people say" is stuck in your head, the consequences.
36:08 - How to get out of a toxic relationship?
37:05 - Support figures in a person's life. What does a person who did not have such a figure in childhood feel?
38:20 - You don't have to carry everything on yourself. A mistake at the beginning of a relationship.
39:40 - Codependency. Closing your own emptiness with another person.
40:10 - After a divorce, it takes time for emotional recovery.
41:20 - The difference between isolation and constructive loneliness.
44:00 - If the condition is severe, you need to see a psychologist, it is very difficult to pull yourself out on your own.
46:20 - Relationships are not an end in themselves, but a tool for a harmonious life.
47:00 - Why get married?
48:00 - Life is a journey. The desire to want to go through it together.
20 Comments
Просто цей момент чомусь не уточнюється ніколи, хоча знову таки, багато людей не проживають період монади 🙈 Звучить просто якось дивно.. "всім треба мати ЦЕ, а якщо ви не маєте, то ви.." .. хто? І який вихід?
І ще одне: "що я можу дати партнеру?". Теж дивне питання, яке підштовхує копатися у собі і годувати комплекс неповноцінності.. Що я можу дати партнеру залежить від того, що потрібно партнеру. Можливо я вважаю, що можу дати партнеру підтримку, а йому потрібен секс, а підтримка йому не треба.. або навпаки 😅 Треба працювати над стосунками в процесі, я вважаю - чути і йти на зустріч. А готуватися бути хорошим партнером можна цілу вічність; в тому числі бути повністю самодостатньою особистістю також, це може займати десятиліття - то не будувати стосунки, поки не пофіксиш всі баги? Звучить нереалістично.
Я не хочу сказати, що психолог не права і т. д., просто дуже багато поправок треба зробити, щоб не загнатися в самокопання з питанням "а може я дефективний?"
людині завжди потрібен інший
на кого можна себе помножити
для кого варто писати вірші
з ким можна разом долати відчай
чи радість ділити не ризикуючи
хто може в будь-яку мить засвідчити
що ти – реальний що ти – існуєш
людина ж бо в себе не надто вірить
все свідка для себе шукає якогось
нема людини – спіймає звіра
не зловить звіра – віднайде бога
не знайде бога – візьме люстерко
та навіть там себе не впізнає
бо в сóбі бачить обличчя смерті
й не розуміє що смерті немає..
людина сама нічого не може –
ні народитись ні вмерти тихо
побудь же іншим мені мій боже
постій поблизу…
помовч… Автор Іздрик
Працюю над собою постійно.
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ЧОМУ ЛЮДИ ВІДЧУВАЮТЬ СЕБЕ САМОТНІМИ У ПАРІ? | Ілона Довгань та Світлана Шумська
ОнлайнТерапія
38,952 views
WHY DO PEOPLE FEEL LONELY IN A COUPLE?
DOES LONELINESS DESTROY OR SAVE?
This is what Ilona Dovgan and Svitlana Shumska, clinical psychologist, family psychotherapist, talked about today.
Watch the new episode of OnlineTherapy and learn about the following:
✔️ What is loneliness? “I am alone” is about loneliness?
✔️ How does having children change relationships?
✔️ How do toxic relationships destroy a person? When is it worth getting a divorce?
✔️ What do Ukrainians who have left feel? How to help yourself in another country?
✔️ What is codependency? Why can’t you fill your own emptiness with another person?
Subscribe to our channel @onlineterapiya 🩵
Also listen to programs on the air of radio “KrainaFM”.
Follow us on social networks:
Instagram www.instagram.com/onlineterapiya_official
TikTok www.tiktok.com/@onlineterapiya
Or listen to the podcast https://bit.ly/3RoUjMy
________________________________________________________________
01:30 - What is loneliness?
02:20 - When do people get divorced?
03:05 - The main meeting in life with yourself.
06:00 - Relationships. What can I give?
07:30 - The appearance of children radically changes relationships.
09:00 - What traumas do people come into relationships with?
13:03 - Ukrainians who are forced to leave feel not only loneliness, but also isolation.
14:10 - How to help yourself to those who are currently abroad?
19:50 - Loneliness is a trauma.
20:20 - How does traumatic loneliness manifest itself?
21:00 - The difference between loneliness and seclusion.
23:00 - Support groups. A problem divided into two is no longer the same.
24:30 - Feeling lonely when you have a partner.
29:45 - How do toxic relationships destroy a person?
32:20 - A person needs a person.
35:20 - When the phrase "what will people say" is stuck in your head, the consequences.
36:08 - How to get out of a toxic relationship?
37:05 - Support figures in a person's life. What does a person who did not have such a figure in childhood feel?
38:20 - You don't have to carry everything on yourself. A mistake at the beginning of a relationship.
39:40 - Codependency. Closing your own emptiness with another person.
40:10 - After a divorce, it takes time for emotional recovery.
41:20 - The difference between isolation and constructive loneliness.
44:00 - If the condition is severe, you need to see a psychologist, it is very difficult to pull yourself out on your own.
46:20 - Relationships are not an end in themselves, but a tool for a harmonious life.
47:00 - Why get married?
48:00 - Life is a journey. The desire to want to go through it together.