INFJ’S want Truth, Meaning, Growth and want to help- Yes!

If you find an INFJ, make them your friend. My late wife was INFJ, and I recently befriended another INFJ. Rare, but powerful.

As an INFJ I am often called a conspiracy theorist.  Makes sense. Wait 6 months and what I said or felt comes true.  Maybe we should be taken seriously.

We walk in a world that runs on illusion. We do not. Sensory understanding and truth barometers are a threat to most. Still, we are seeing, what cannot be hidden. It takes a toll on us. Few can understand. It’s a rather lonely walk.  I’m too old now to bother “pretending” to make others comfortable. I just stay away.

It's almost like I'm awake when I'm asleep some time I like my brain never stops

People don't react well to it so I stay quiet usually

I am 39 years old and just coming to terms with what's in this video.  I've scored INFJ and became a counselor and activist.  Also struggled greatly with depression trauma anxiety cptsd and chronic pain and fatigue.  What is really interesting is I get along with friends well who are honest with themselves, but the conflict within family didn't make sense to me.  The thing is I am impossible to control and tell the truth always but as i've gotten older i try to be careful to not offend.  The thing is I don't consciously realize everything, but do detect character quickly and lies.  This makes being around narcissistic people or manipulative people or greedy people so difficult.  Life is very difficult but i usually outside my family try to always smile be kind and spend 95 % of my time alone.  The thing is I also don't care if people stigmatize me.  I actually welcome it b/c i'd rather always know the truth.  CPTSD hyper vigilance and all the processing with a brain that works differently makes it really exhausting.  I care so deeply for people, even those that are abusive b/c i understand why they do it and had to work hard to hold boundaries.  I also have used drugs and alcohol since a young age and not drugs anymore but i always kind of got back up and adapt quickly so i think that is frustrating b/c it looks like i am just carefree happy and don't take life seriously when inside it is many different truths like a puzzle all the time.  Inequality bothers me a lot.  I didn't realize until this year how knowing things before others and even being courageous in confronting things that aren't ethical or even abusive can bother those who are insecure.  It's terrifying tho to me how accurate the INFJ fits b/c i considered MB to be more accurate than something like astrology, but not a true science.  I studied it and know it's psychology i have the degree earned a 3.9 in my psych classes but still it's kind of mind blowing for the personality types to pinpoint it so well.  The biggest issue i have is when things are unfair or the vulnerable are blamed, scapegoated or abused.  It caused problems sometimes with interpersonal relationships working in teams with people who were fooling others but shit people or unethical to the point of abuse with say clients or patients and most employees unless it's obvious will hold loyalty to coworkers in psych units etc b/c it's just how it works.  The videos are interesting though b/c the problems i have are when i'm joking with or dealing with men who want to control and with the true dark narcissistic aholes who figure out i've figured them out and then try to sabotage b/c they feel threatened when i'm not even attacking them.  Wild.... Thanks for the video.

We just want to know TRUTH and find the best way to help you guys out.

Our brain is like a computer.

I was once told, "People find you intimidating..." surprised I asked if I did to make people feel that way. His answer, was"Oh you don't do anything wrong, it's just the amount you know that makes them feel inferior" I asked, is it the way I present the information? He said it wasn't, just the depth I can speak with on a subject.  And they reported me to my manager for that, so basically I was being asked to lower my input or knowledge, so others feel better.

I was tested as an INFJ. Twice. Ten years apart, got the same score.

How many Aquarians here?

This phenomenon has made me want to live again

Indeed. Truth over all else.

INFJ'S won't be manipulated. Especially if they have experienced this in the past.
We see the elephant in the room, once said other's see we are the polite Sheldon...

No problem with admission when wrong either! When u say deep…it encompasses everything

I always get this word “you’re intimidating” 😂

I always think back to my favorite film quote when I wallow. The first 30~ seconds of this video brought me back to it.

Its from the 2008 hulk movie, true then, hurts even more now.

" IF ONLY I KNEW THE THINGS I KNOW NOW AND HAD THE BODY I HAD BACK THEN. "

For Infj is like having a matrice in front of their eyes when is speaking with someone especially new person  almoust instantly.I am glad I found that I am in Infj before I go mad 😂

That's why some of people won't start to talk to me because they don't know what I will start to say :) They think I look stupid but it seems I also smarter than others, they think I'm difficult to be understood, but I think I also make conclusions according to very simple rules, why I'm so complex in other people's eyes.