Just leave that abusive guy, since you don't have any kids

Golden Words : " Shaadi tab hi karo, Jab alag rah sako.."  (Being a married person this is the best advice.

Mn b financially independent thi mjhy bht bol bol k job churwai ab shadi k 5 sal hogy mujhy pai pai k liye tarsaa dea hy, asal mn full time maasi chahiye muft me bas

Don’t quit your job. Being financial independent will make your life easier. When you are dependent on someone they control you and abuse you. It’s harder to escape from
Abusive relationships.

i think this kind of incidents occurs bcz of the man who is not able to manage the relations properly.After marraige  many new relations forms and they do require some time, during this time everyone should try to understand each other but if someone do not try to fit in new envoirnment then that man should take reponsibility and go against the wrong one no matters if it is his mother or his wife... but in any case volience is not a solution..... Importantly this kind of cases should not be used to defame or go against joint family culture

Bestest marriage counseling I have EVER seen Thank you👏👏👏

wow,, you are really a smart observer.. khas kar ye farigh wali baat to bilkul 100 % sahi kahi

Beta leave this marriage before it's too late. He will never change. Your job is not the problem. Some other problem will come up next. My motherly advise beta pls leave.

33 years of age and still a mama's boy, I am not sure when we will get out of this bs family structure.

You are great sir 👍 Allah bless you always ❤

Please do that questionnaire thing. That's a good idea.

People often say divorces are increasing nowadays, but the truth is, in our parents’ time, women had no choice. They were financially dependent, unaware of their rights, and pressured to tolerate abuse for the sake of family honor. They sacrificed careers, endured mistreatment, and lived like unpaid maids, with their only hope being their children whom they later emotionally manipulated to fulfill their own unfulfilled desires.

Today, women are more aware, independent, and refuse to tolerate toxicity and Islam supports standing against injustice. Divorce, though painful, can be the start of a better life, free from oppression.

To you, dear sister: think carefully. If you return without change, you may lose respect and career opportunities, and they’ll know you’ll tolerate anything. If you’re unsure, call your husband directly and ask what he wants, don’t involve a third person, as it only delays clarity.

Pray tahajjud, ask Allah for strength, and trust His decree. Whatever happens will be for your good, InshaAllah.

Keep talking issues like theses need to be discussed and addressed

Allah pak hum sab ki behnoo k Naseeb achy krain ameen 🤲

This is not going to get better, but everyone learns their truth on their own pace.

Narcissist family hai. Husband must be the GODLEN CHILD. Leave him or suffer later. Sari zindagi ronay se behtar hai abhi ro lo behen. You’re financial independent you don’t need such people in your life.

May Allah help my sister. My explanation is based on my personal opinion so i can relate and can understand what my sister is going through. First, in Sharia if conflict is beyond solution, interfering party is allowed. so no issue with mamu. Secondly, if you are independent take a separate home even on rent even if its of one room. according to sharia its your right. if its your husband willingness then leave job then you can and start some online jobs or start studying again your mind will have some reason to escape. make lot of DUA, DUA melt hearts and stay close to Allah (SWT).  InshAllah Allah will answer your prayers. May Allah make life easy for you sister. Much love❤

I really hate this kind of thing in our society as you said “sb farigh hain “ sary issues hi ici waja se hoty hain

Tbh honest i would give a solution to boys of this generation:

Never share your parent's talks tensions with your wife and never share wife's problems with parents . Keep them seprate solve them seprate if you cant just say them i am not eligible - never let women dishonor your parents and never let parents dishonor your wife - tell parent straight at first day of marriage this is my wife if you have some problem with here ask me it's my property - you gotta give her atleast 2 to 3 years so she could set in your family untill then give her all she wants all freedom all power - a flower in new soil need some time to bloom ❤

There is national crisis in Pakistan about having grown up men still attached to the umbilical cords of their mothers. The society hates single, divorced and independent women. If society had a more accepting behaviour towards such women, I wouldn’t be surprised if most of those chose to live alone. The case described here about the man is a classic example of “the trash took itself out”. The guy does not deserve an inch of that lady. She is too good for him.