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My Thai Girlfriend Had a Secret I Wasn’t Supposed to Find 🇹🇭

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What happens when you discover your Thai girlfriend has been secretly talking to her ex for almost a year?

In today's Thailand relationship story, an Australian expat living in Bangkok believes he has found a genuine relationship with a Thai woman. Everything seems normal until one message suddenly appears on her phone: *“Miss you already.”*

What follows isn't a typical Thailand cheating or scam story. There are no secret hotel meetings and no demands for money. Instead, he discovers that his girlfriend has maintained an emotional connection with her British ex-boyfriend and deliberately kept it hidden from him.

Was she emotionally cheating, or was this simply a friendship with an ex that crossed his personal boundaries?

This subscriber story looks at trust, dating in Thailand, Thai-Western relationships, cultural differences and the grey area between friendship and emotional cheating.

*My Thai Girlfriend Had a Secret I Wasn’t Supposed to Find*

Let me know what you would have done in his position.

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20 Comments

@thaitalkwithdan Creator 1 month ago Pinned

This one is definitely going to divide opinions… 👀
Fern says nothing physical ever happened with her ex, but she secretly spoke to him for months and even told him it was “better” that her boyfriend didn't know.
So here's the question:
👉 Was this emotional cheating, or did Matt overreact?
And the bigger one… would YOU have taken her back?
I'm interested to see where everyone draws the line on this one. Keep it respectful and let me know below. 🇹🇭👇
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@Glythos 1 month ago

For me if a girl is still talking with an ex and they don’t have kids, that’s a dealbreaker. No way I would tolerate that. In this case because she cut off the guy, I don’t blame the guy for giving it another chance, but I don’t think the trust will ever go back to the way it was, and ultimately it might end up costing the relationship.

@gerry4585 1 month ago

I worked with a Thai girl once....beautiful..her smile would light up a million candles!......soon became my girlfriend for 18months ...lucky me i hear you say?...i can honestly say it was the most stressful and miserable 18 months of my life😢😢😢....could not turn your back on the woman for 2 seconds without hearing more and more rumours and sightings with diff men😢?...all denied of course?...i hear she's shacked up with a manager now?...and still up to her old tricks😱....These people are ruthless 😮😮😮😮

@VENEMPASTOR 1 month ago

Thailand is like a menu with two different sets of women. A version for the foreigner and another for the locals. Most times, the foreigner does NOT get the love and loyalty that the locals get. Deception artists are mostly what's on the menu for foreigners. Choose wisely.
Most of the ones in the foreigner's pool have more miles than a 1974 pick up truck and play the long game well. Don't say I didn't warn you. And, the same can be said about many other countries too.
Cheers.
🍻

@AlexMansfield-t9i 1 month ago

Never trust anyone 💯, ever. There is only one person in the world whose thoughts you know completely. Yourself. Always be mentally prepared to get out of it.

@usuario-dc8bb 1 month ago

That guy is in denial, absolute low iq. THE SISTER WAS OBVIOUSLY TOLD ABOUT THE QUESTION. And the sister called as a direct order by the sister to tell him that fake scenario and how out of all of a sudden the cheating ex came to her realization and said No to the English guy. Dude is either in denial or low iq.

@GlennHotspur 1 month ago

Your opinion is the one that matters, mate. If you trust her, then stay with her; if you don't, move on, because life is short!

@VeeSiam-w5y 3 days ago

Constant Contact with an ex is a big 🔧 in the works for a smooth trusting relationship.
Great video Dan

@YaStarz 6 days ago

This is very common. They often have at least some contact to ex partners. They also often believe it is okay to lie if the truth could cause issues. Experienced it myself and heard it many times.

@FelixFelixsen 1 month ago (edited)

James is plan B.

Notice the two major red flags:
The I miss you message and The hiding of her contact with James.

@daltonwin46 1 month ago

I think he can enjoy her as long as he wants but a secret meeting is a secret meeting .. “miss you ALREADY” in my mind is they just had sex recently … just an innocent lunch doesn’t evoke/ create that kind of message and your subscriber knows that by his line of questioning he suspects but life is temporary and he is much happier with her then enjoy the ride

@robertbennett1287 1 month ago

I routinely interact with the "ex" with zero interest in "taking her back." It's a pragmatic relationship for me now. To each their own. 🙏

@christianpatton9364 1 month ago

I thought she was my girlfriend , but my girl is different. The top two delusional comments from western men visiting Thailand.
Always remember , she was never your girl it was just your turn.

@KaneHan626 1 month ago

As someone who was a simp in both the west and the east, I learned that the problem was me and I needed to change. Dating around made me distrust females and I forgot women like my mom still exist.

@Jase-w6f 2 weeks ago

Like you say,RUN Forest RUN

@Salvatore-e8b 1 month ago

Should of walked away from the first msg she was still thinking about the other man.

@MightyJoeBloggs 1 month ago

Prefacing that we’ll call him a fool never makes you one seem less of a fool …

@danke95 1 month ago

I don't think there's anything wrong with her talking to him. Yeah ideally she should have been upfront about it. But when does she actually tell him about this? She told him about it early in their relationship. It would be considered a red flag for him potentially. If she tells him 8 months in well, he's going to feel to deceived. It's really a no-win situation. So I think having a discussion about it and setting boundaries like Matt did was probably the way to go.

@michaelorfanos7416 1 month ago

Well, he did find out that she does really love him so it all worked out in the end. I think she's a keeper.

@fialee8 4 weeks ago

For her to avoid the argument, she should have not met up with her. If this guy had any balls, he should barfine a few girls, and have them text him constantly, and see how she likes it.