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How often do you hear advice on how to build a healthy heterosexual relationship? Personally, I hear it every day. Gay relationships are mentioned a little less often. But almost no one talks about lesbians. And at my consultations, I see lesbian couples with the same problems that could have been avoided if they had been aware of them in advance.

In this video, I examine the four most common mistakes in lesbian relationships that lead to crisis and breakup. Why do women move in together on the second date, and how does this end? How does total fusion kill passion? And why does sex disappear even in the most loving couples?

I'll use IFS language to explain how the inner workings of lesbian couples work and why knowing each other's trauma can ruin intimacy if you don't know how to work with it.

💡 This video isn't about saying, "You're doing it all wrong." It's about understanding the hidden mechanisms that help maintain love and passion in long-term relationships.

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📌 EPISODES 📌

00:00 ► Why Relationship Advice Rarely Considers Lesbian Couples
00:54 ► Mistake #1: Getting Too Close
02:19 ► Why Living Together Too Quickly Can Ruin a Relationship
04:06 ► Mistake #2: Merging and Giving Up on Your Life
05:04 ► How Distance Helps Maintain Passion
06:28 ► Mistake #3: The "Crystal Vase" Effect
07:20 ► How Childhood Trauma Affects Relationships
09:51 ► How Caring for Your Partner Can Destroy Intimacy
10:02 ► KIself Space Private Club
10:32 ► Mistake #4: Sex and Heterosexual Norms
10:59 ► What Depends on Sexual Desire
11:21 ► How Context Affects Desire
12:12 ► What to Do If Sex in a Couple Has Less
12:31 ► How to Restore Desire by Changing the Environment
12:58 ► Summary: How to Avoid Relationship Mistakes
13:03 ► Invitation to a Private Club

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❤️ IFS therapist and psychologist Diana Fomenko on relationships, sexuality, and freedom – without shame, pressure, or inhibitions. Here we explore what happens to desire, the body, and intimacy in relationships.

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