Как ЛЕГКО общаться с окружающими и БЫСТРО находить друзей
Психология с Анеттой Орловой
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Do you know what people who are genuinely liked have in common? They don't try to be liked. It sounds paradoxical, but this is exactly what I observe every day in my practice. Amazing, smart, beautiful people come to me and ask, "Why do people avoid me? Why do I feel like an outsider in groups?" And when we start to get to the bottom of it, the same thing emerges: they are so fixated on HOW they appear to others that they completely lose touch with the real people around them.
In this video, I'll tell you about the main "destroyers" of likeability that you might not even know about. Why a stone face isn't protection, but an invitation to loneliness. Where do your eyes really look when you're anxious? And most importantly, I'll share a powerful technique that will help you, in just a few minutes, become the kind of person others thrive around. Spoiler: it works better than any attempt to appear cooler, smarter, or more successful. Because people remember not your accomplishments, but how they feel around you.
What's more difficult for you: talking first or keeping up a conversation?
00:00 Why people don't like you
01:01 How anxiety is killing your communication
02:31 The biggest mistake when meeting people
04:15 What to do if you're alone
06:50 Why people get tired of you in a group
08:30 How self-loathing pushes people away
10:15 The secret weapon of attraction
11:50 Why bloggers are losing subscribers
12:40 How competitors are ruining your reputation
14:15 The main law of communication
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Как ЛЕГКО общаться с окружающими и БЫСТРО находить друзей
Психология с Анеттой Орловой
64,966 views
➤ Do you want to finally be heard and truly seen? I invite you to the practical course "Self-Presentation. Without Inner Complexes." The course starts soon. Learn more on the official website: https://anettaschool.ru/y/338a706
➤ My Telegram: https://t.me/+WklBCBNf7-wzZTRi
Do you know what people who are genuinely liked have in common? They don't try to be liked. It sounds paradoxical, but this is exactly what I observe every day in my practice. Amazing, smart, beautiful people come to me and ask, "Why do people avoid me? Why do I feel like an outsider in groups?" And when we start to get to the bottom of it, the same thing emerges: they are so fixated on HOW they appear to others that they completely lose touch with the real people around them.
In this video, I'll tell you about the main "destroyers" of likeability that you might not even know about. Why a stone face isn't protection, but an invitation to loneliness. Where do your eyes really look when you're anxious? And most importantly, I'll share a powerful technique that will help you, in just a few minutes, become the kind of person others thrive around. Spoiler: it works better than any attempt to appear cooler, smarter, or more successful. Because people remember not your accomplishments, but how they feel around you.
What's more difficult for you: talking first or keeping up a conversation?
00:00 Why people don't like you
01:01 How anxiety is killing your communication
02:31 The biggest mistake when meeting people
04:15 What to do if you're alone
06:50 Why people get tired of you in a group
08:30 How self-loathing pushes people away
10:15 The secret weapon of attraction
11:50 Why bloggers are losing subscribers
12:40 How competitors are ruining your reputation
14:15 The main law of communication
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➤ SELF-PRESENTATION Playlist САМОПРЕЗЕНТАЦИЯ
Subscribe, click the 🔔 to stay up to date with new videos https://www.youtube.com/c/AnettaOrlov...
About me:
Practicing psychologist with over 15 years of experience;
PhD in Sociology;
Business mentor, speaker at major international forums;
Expert on national channels and radio host;
Founder of the online school Self-Evolution, which has over 20,000 students from around the world.
#AnettaOrlova #selfpresentation #psychologist #psychology #relationships #friends #communication #communicationpsychology #presentation #socialpsychology #relationshipsecrets #happinesssecrets
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