You can't see the men with a smartphone put up to your face 24/7.

"What stops me from asking a girl for a date?"  
FALSE CLAIMS.  If she doesn't know who I am, or see me, I am much safer.

on the off chance that a women who is genuinely interested in understanding why is actually reading these comments:

1) enough women will respond to men's approaches by filming them and ridiculing them on social media combined with the risk that such a post might go viral is enough by itself to make men not want to do it. any woman who speaks up against it is likely labelled a 'pick me' and they're ostracized by the ultra-feminists who may not be the majority but are vocal enough to wield influence over most women. oddly enough, some women are more brutal towards women that disagree with them than they are towards men;

2) the sad part is that men were still trying while they were simps/friend zoned, hoping that what they did might win women with their actions. they've learned over time that that achieves nothing because women never reciprocated the effort, and man have given up. and what needs to be understood is that when a man goes silent, he's learned that trying is a lost cause and he's given up FOR GOOD. the only chance you had to work things out was while he was still trying and of course, women had no reason to do so since they were getting everything they wanted without having to reciprocate in any way;

3) the only chance of even getting a man to reconsider involves accountability on the woman's part, and we all know that is never going to happen, someone all women are "queens", even though 34.8% of all women in the US from 25-34 have a BMI of 30+ which categorizes them as obese - and they all believe that they are somehow entitled to be dating the top 5% of all men (who are rated by credentials such as height, income and certain other physical attributes but by nothing that has to do with character). the apparent level of delusion is spectacular;

4) again, not necessarily all women, but enough women on social media/influencers are advocating entitlements that include expensive first dates as part of the "bare minimum" and some women who have no interest in a guy will still go out on that first date just to get a free expensive meal. we're basically being treated by some women as ATMs with legs;

5) even something that was done a century ago, like dropping a handkerchief to get a man's attention and give him a 'legitimate' reason to approach a women with whom he is unacquainted by retrieving the handkerchief and returning it runs the risk of invoking the ire of a "i don't need no man'" type of woman who has gone as far as accused a man of sexual assault when he tried to resuscitate her by performing CPR. it's really that bad out there. there's more but the bottom line is that;


6) we can't distinguish potentially good women (majority or minority, i won't say) from the toxic ones on sight. so we play it safe and avoid all women. and we're done until something changes drastically and THEN wins us over over time. so this is not going to happen soon and definitely not before you get past child-bearing age. we can both grieve over that. i would suggest that it starts with respecting men for what they are and being something that complements them rather than competing with them. a man's home (however humble) is still his castle and he needs a certain amount of peace, not never-ending drama;

Women can focus on their careers as they should ESPECIALLY in this economy. However it’s clear that many prefer not to be approached, or men don’t want a partner or that people think they’re such a catch that they bring nothing to the table.

When did tattoos and the word 'fuck' become commonplace with women?? I'd rather stay single.

💯. 😂😂😂 NO MORE SIMPING MEN .take back your sack