Is it better to stay grounded or follow when she moves away? What's your take?
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I just completed a 3-day workshop with Alex and his team, and this video summarizes one of the most valuable lessons they taught me: There’s a balance to strike between signaling your interest and revealing your desperation.

Humans are generally averse to desperate behaviors. Consider how you respond to homeless people, salesmen, drug addicts, and pandering politicians. Are you excited to entertain their offers, or do you doubt that they’re worth your time?

The same principle applies in dating. Attractive women are afforded countless offers from men, so they’ve learned efficiency of discernment to protect their time and ensure their safety. Generally, men with an attitude of abundance seem safer and more worthwhile than men with an attitude of neediness.

So lean back, stand still, speak slower, and stop agreeing with everything they say. Be secure with you who are, maintain your values, and act in every interaction as if you will not be harmed by rejection. You don’t need her, you want her. Know the difference.

That's crazy to see how a beautiful woman can have insecurities around dating just like a average man. You did a good job breaking her defenses

i would rather walk away she is very difficult with herself and it has nothing to do with you.

It will be very cool having a video approaching women in Sofia :)

Why would you want to date someone who is proud of being a good liar like she admires herself in the video? She kind of likes you, but it's better to try to go for an instant date than asking for a phone number in 2025. Women easily block a guy or ignore messages. When she liked you and started smiling, it was a moment for a kino escalation somehow. You could also have asked her to come with you instead of the date, for an adventure. Miss her date.. go with you. Asking for a phone number is future planning that girls don't like, but sometimes you have to ask for her number, though, depending on the situation.

Wow !  What a pretty lady !  in so many ways, so elegant, sporty, fun, respectable... How can you not be (desperately) in love with her ?

subtle body language and telling her you have 6 figures. I think that was the key in the end considering shes a linkedin girly and obviously fixated on status. But that doesn't discard your optimal body language! Thanks for the insights

Wirklich heftig man das so kleiner Dinge so viel ausmachen

I think if you had given her a time constraint instead of immediately walking with her, there would have been less friction in the end. but again, maybe it would make no difference because she sounds high maintenance...

Converting rejection into injection

It is obvious she will ghost him

I find it very interesting how many self declared dating coaches are there in the comments. Everyone knows it better then the other. HAHA

Wow, she is like straight from romantic movie

1:18 "To meeting" 😂
Your really good, grounded and in the moment. Is Warsaw better or Krakow for finding a gf through approaches?

But was she interested or was she just being friendly and polite? Because if a girl is truly attracted she won't make it that fucking hard!  She disqualified herself a couple of times when she said she's not good at dating and telling you to find her when she's in the city again lol!

If your Instagram is good she might reply. In the beginning you should have given a false time constraint when you started walking with her. I mean she seemed friendly and you to your credit do come across as chilled but if a guy walks with a girl he doesn't know she is probably thinking how long is this guy going to follow me and I will have to think of an excuse to get rid of him.

Did you manage to get her out on a date or was that it?

I don't know, Alex. The section with the "feet movement" where you say she likes you is a questionable assessment. When a girl is working that hard to avoid giving you her contact info, she's not responding to a follow-up.  Part of the problem with these on-video approaches is, and you can correct me if I'm wrong, but you never contact these girls, right?  It's too messy to get involved with someone you've put online.  The reason this matters is because we never know if, indeed, she would've responded.  Because maybe I'm wrong and I misread the situation but I don't think I did.  

I do think this is a great video for teaching persistance though.  It didn't work on this girl but if you consistently practice this kind of persistance, it for sure pays off in some interactions.  So why not just frame the video that way?

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Okay not bad , you got her IG but it was a bit to pushy tbh and  the things here is..... what happened afterwards ?.

From 11:00 - 14:00 you butchered the convo, it was way too long, just tell her "give me your whatsapp, you're in a hurry, let's exchange contact, etc." and let her go, there's no need for all that useless stuff, you had her, could've been done way smoother. Then after text her, was nice meeting you, let's get coffee some time or something like that. Simple as that