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Mindset shifts that will help you detach instantly. (stop obsessing over them).

natalie etched

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If you've been trying EVERYTHING to "detach" and stop caring about them, but can't stop. THIS is the video for you.

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20 Comments

@natalieetched Creator 1 year ago Pinned

Hey lovelies ❤️ YouTube’s algorithm just shifted to valuing likes, comments, and returning viewers more than other metrics so if you found this video helpful, comment below what you’re intending to detach from to set an intention. This is a safe space ❤️

@Hativeu 1 year ago (edited)

1. Center yourself
2. Accept people as they are and place them where they belong
3. Realize every person could leave you anytime
4. Affirm the reality you want
5. Be secure with yourself

@mariahzalera2123 1 year ago

raise your self worth by self-worship.. lots of baths, massages, exercise, good food, skincare, etc. but in a way thats not rushed.. just very present

@MadiFrench-jf7cj 1 year ago

"their disinterest in you is mirroring your disinterest in yourself" was wild

@clarissaywy 1 year ago

Don't ever put anyone on a pedestal. Even if the guy is the hottest and richest or is a walking green flag. Because when you do you give all your power away and you can be easily manipulated. It really annoyed me when I see girls chasing validation from men and acting like the fact they chose you is like winning the lottery. Please.

@TheCluelessAcademy 1 year ago

I used to think I was ‘too much’ until I realized I was just in the wrong room.

@yoshiko2026 1 year ago

Girls, remember, you don't need them, they need you, that's why they always come back, and when they come back, you just have to say "no".

@charlotteruthwilson 1 year ago

I live in a state of detachment and it is the best thing ever.

I really don’t care when people’s behaviour is bizarre because it’s about them. I know exactly what I deserve. The best.

@pomelo_dude 1 year ago

Btw guys, I would recommend quitting alcohol. It lowers your vibration and you will attract the wrong person. When you’re sober and conscious, and feeling good about yourself. That’s when love comes.

@Pubgkingmaker09 1 year ago

If you're reading this right now, I just want to say; I'm rooting for you. We’re strangers, but that doesn’t mean I don’t care. I know what it’s like to feel like you're pushing a boulder uphill. I felt that way until I picked up Manifest and Receive by Eva Hartley. I can’t explain it perfectly, but it changed my whole perspective. Since then, things have been flowing—money, peace, confidence. Maybe this is your moment too. Stay open. Wishing you more than you ever imagined. 💫💰

@Mlc-s5p 1 year ago (edited)

Maybe this is too niche, but as a physicist girly I LOVE that you CORRECTLY explained a physics concept and just used it as an ANALOGY, not a literal explanation for human behavior. Like, I love this type of content as a girly, but as a physicist, it can be so painful sometimes. This was so refreshing thank you 🫶🏽

@all420arman9 1 year ago

Everyone who reads this, we don’t know each other and probably never will, but I wish you all the best in life and all the luck in the world. If you’re struggling right now, trust me—I know exactly how that feels. I spent years working hard but never really getting ahead. I thought success was all about effort, but I was missing something bigger. That changed the moment I read Manifest and Receive by Eva Hartley. I don’t know how to explain it, but my income doubled in just a few months, and for the first time, I feel like I truly understand how wealth works. If you’re reading this, maybe you were meant to. Wishing you all abundance and success. 💰✨

@DianaDaytona 1 year ago

“Attachement is not love” hits

@waway_way 1 year ago

It's wild that we're discussing techniques to detach from DETACHED people. This defines this era to the T.
When we should all be more expressive, honest, kind between us, yet here we are, finding guys (mostly) never showing feelings, talking things through, working it out, but detaching. And yet women (mostly) we're warriors on this era, we feel so much and so hard.

@poesjy9550 1 month ago

i dont need them, they need me

@RelaxedEating-ie6mw 1 year ago

im super luteal and yesterday i was feeling needy because my bf was busy speedflying up in the mountains and he wasn't being as responsive as usual. i was wearing his shirt and being all mopey and then i was like hold up why am i reinforcing this sadness - wearing his shirt, analyzing his texts etc. i decided wearing his shirt when i miss him/feel needy actually isn't good for my mental state. so i put it in the hamper and went on a walk and i swear he felt my detachment and then was texting me being all cute. it really is an energy that others can feel even when they arent around you

@Akashfromindia 1 year ago

This comment section probably won’t remember me, but maybe someone scrolling needs this. A few months ago I hit a wall. Nothing made sense. I bought Manifest and Receive by Eva Hartley after seeing it here on yt. I had no expectations. But chapter by chapter, it broke something open in me. Not motivation — momentum. Wishing that for you too.✨

@Ajayrajput-j9d7d 1 year ago

This comment section probably won’t remember me, but maybe someone scrolling needs this. A few months ago I hit a wall. Nothing made sense. I bought Manifest the Unseen by Luna Rivers after seeing it here on yt. I had no expectations. But chapter by chapter, it broke something open in me. Not motivation — momentum. Wishing that for you too.✨