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"One benefactor harboring a jade within a worn coat changes the course of my life more than ten people with flashy appearances." Among the people around you right now, is there someone who may not be eloquent or flashy, but who brings you peace of mind when you are with them and steadfastly stands by your side?

Those who approached you pretending to be friendly, flaunting expensive clothes and glitzy titles, are often the first to turn their backs and leave scars when you are actually in trouble. The truth I feel most acutely as I grow older is that judging a person's character solely based on outward wealth and honor is the worst mistake of my life. In today's video, drawing upon the philosophy of life of Schopenhauer, a great Western philosopher who most keenly penetrated the human psyche; Laozi's concept of "Great wisdom appears foolish"—a master of Eastern Taoist thought—as well as the latest psychological research from leading universities around the world, I share clear wisdom to identify the "just 1% of true benefactors" who can completely change the course of your life's fortune, even if they appear poor and naive in the eyes of others.

1️⃣ Steadfastness that is slow in calculations and unafraid of immediate losses (Schopenhauer's Philosophy & Research by Professor Adam Grant of the Wharton School)

2️⃣ Pure compassion that silently stands by the side of others in the face of their pain (Schopenhauer's Ethics of Compassion & UC Berkeley's Embodied Empathy Research)

3️⃣ Inner contentment that does not dwell on the gaze of others (Schopenhauer's Philosophy of Life & University of Rochester's Self-Determination Research)

4️⃣ The eye to recognize the 1% of hidden benefactors: How to watch the feet in unseen places, not the lips of the other person

5️⃣ The appearance of a true benefactor encountered in modern society: A hypothetical case of Mr. Kim, an office worker in his 50s

6️⃣ The teachings of the Eastern sage Laozi: 'Great wisdom appears foolish' (Da Zhi Ruo Yu), that the greatest wisdom appears foolish

7️⃣ Living harboring a precious jewel within old hemp clothes The Insight of 'Wearing Brown, Holding Jade'

8️⃣ The Virtue of Water That Flows to the Lowest Places to Give Life to All Things, the Wisdom of 'The Highest Good is Like Water'

9️⃣ The Common Realization of Schopenhauer and Lao Tzu: A Life of Stripping Away the Illusion of Pretense and Filling the Inner Core

🔟 The Final Conclusion: Recognizing the Benefactor Who Will Protect Your Blessings for a Lifetime, Beyond the Flashy Shell

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⏱️ Timeline (Timeline - 18 min 59 sec)

00:00 Even if you look shabby and lacking, if you show 'this side of yourself,' you are a true benefactor who will change the great fortune of your life

01:30 The three conditions of humanity revealed by Schopenhauer: The weight of the inner self vs. the illusion of superficiality

02:55 First. Steadfastness that is slow at calculations and does not fear immediate losses (Wharton School study)
05:15 Second. Pure compassion that silently stands by the side in the face of others' pain (University of Berkeley study)
07:40 Third. Inner contentment unconcerned with the gaze of others (University of Rochester study)
10:05 The eye that recognizes the 1% hidden benefactors: Observe the invisible tips of the feet, not the lips
11:20 Realistic benefactors in modern society: How to see the observer through the case of Mr. Kim in his 50s
13:10 Laozi's insight: Those who possess great wisdom appear like fools - 'Great wisdom appears foolish'
14:45 The paradox of 'carrying a luminous jade within rough clothes'
16:05 The virtue of water flowing to the lowest places without contention - 'The highest good is like water'
17:20 The point where Schopenhauer and Laozi meet: How should we live and whom should we keep by our side?
18:25 When you recognize the precious jade within an old coat, the great fortune of your life It begins

18:59 Video ends

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