it's really nice and refreshing to see so many people who support jaemin also sharing the same introverted experiences...all in all i just think that regardless the person whether you know them or not you won't always know what they're going through. that's not to say jaemin's necessarily going through something now but to those who have left bad comments, made assumptions about him, it wouldn't hurt to keep it to yourself. also doesn't take much understand the way an introvert functions, because not everyone is the same. nana hasn't done anything wrong so idk why so many people appear to be so personally attacked by his "behaviour" recently.
i'm just glad so many people are showing him love during this time and that there are so many that are understanding as well. i'm sure the recent promotions have been tiring for him, but he's working ever so hard. also think that if at any time i were in a room with 22 other people i'd be gone before the end of the day as well haha ><
if you love jaemin that means loving all parts of him. because high tension jaemin is just as much "jaemin" as the jaemin who's quiet and wants to recharge. i wish more people understood that. it's just who he is
EDIT: i genuinely forgot to add but i just wanted to say, rather than speculating and wondering if jaemin's okay or not, it's always nicer to leave nana words of support or love. go on lysn, if you're subscribed to his bubble drop him kind words everyday, leave comments on his instagram posts. he's said before that it's simple words like "i love you", "thank you" and "you've worked hard" that he wants to hear from fans. he's said that we should only see pretty things, and it's only fair we give him the same right? it's valid to be concerned if nana's tired or unwell, being in the main units for both part 1 and 2 and working so hard with practice and other schedules in between. that alone probably is so tiring, what more when there's ot23 events? the thought of it alone is draining to me, physically and mentally :') BUT! don't let that concern lead you to speculate unnecessarily, over-analyse relationships etc, because no matter how much you do that, you still won't know what goes on in his private life. you don't know them. we don't know what he sees online, but such comments have hurt those who relate to this, and admittedly myself as well. wouldn't it be best to just shower him with kind words? that should be the way with all members yeah?
just remember to always be kind and think before you put anything out there!! not everyone is the same, it's fine if you don't personally agree with the way someone "acts" but remember that if it's part of their personality, you can't change that. if you have something to say be nice and considerate about it, they haven't done anything wrong!
i tend to be very lengthy when it comes to things like this so i apologise!! whoever is reading this i hope you have a wonderful day ahead of you!! (*˘︶˘*).。*♡
To anyone worried about him being quieter recently. He's in his element with the dreamies but recently he was pretty much always with people he doesn't know as well as the dreamies. Look at how he was helping Mark with Chenle and Haechan around. To me it just seems like he isn't forcing himself to be someone he's not unlike a lot of other idols in the indsutry are told to do. I'm extremely happy with that. Knowing how stressful and exhausting it can be as an introvert to fake energy and excitement.
people need to understand that being an introvert is not weird, being quiet is not weird, being calm is not weird, feeling blue out of nowhere is not weird, needing a space is not weird. Being an idol doesn't mean he has to be an extrovert or a hyper everytime. in the end of the day, jaemin is a human just like all of us, with his own personality and his own way to recharge :) please accept him as who he is <3
I think this is the first time I saw an introverted idol not hiding his introverted side. Him being in the entertainment industry, there surely are expectations like he has to always be active and happy. It feels so refreshing to actually see someone doing the opposite of that because that is his real personality. I hope he won't change just for the sake of the cameras. :) Keep being an introvert Jaemin-ah. :) We other introverts got your back.
I mean as an introvert, being surrounded by 22 people + staff, can get overwhelming and exhausting. And like the fact that he doesn't force all the energy and is being himself, respect uwu
He doesn't seem off, it's been public knowledge that Jaemin is an introvert. There is a difference between "shy" and "introverted" and I think a lot of people have trouble seeing the difference in a video like this. Jaemin is introverted by nature but not afraid to socialize, he chooses (in larger groups) to let others speak instead. He kinda reminds me of a time that Mark Tuan of Got7 was asked "Why are you so shy" and he responded something along the lines "I'm not shy, I just don't ever have anything to say". In group settings introverts are just more likely to listen and laugh along and let the extroverts do their thing. It sucks because when someone is introverted but not shy people tend to mistake their silence for rudeness.
He is okay, don't overthinking about it. It's just his introvert side. Let him be. I think when Jaemin quiet its mean he is charge his energy. Im just afraid if everyone worried about his introvert side, he will hide this introvert thing and pretend to always happy. He is human like us, who can tired if in crowded space although we just sit and do nothing.
Everyone please dont be panic, just let him be. Let Jaemin to be Na Jaemin. Sorry for bad english:)
Fun fact: There is literally nothing to be worried about even when he's quiet and he's not a poor baby that doesn't have friends. He sure said that his members are his only friends and not even all of them but he prefers it like this and you don't have to pity him Edit: okay damn did I get likes because I came early???
As a 100% introvert myself (the MBTI literally said "sorry, not a single percent of extrovert aspects for you" lmao) I think Jaemin is not even that introverted. I saw a lot of people freaking out or like surprised by the way he was acting during NCT World 2.0 but I thought we all knew he was an introvert from before. I feel like the fact that jaemin decided to become a performer with a group of people already shows that he may be an introvert but probably not to an extreme on the spectrum. I mean he could've chose to do any other job but he decided to do this because he knew he's capable and enjoys it and being a famous person isn't something that extremely introverted can do or ever thinks about doing. Anyways stan Jaemin💚
In all seriousness though, people are saying “Jaemin is so quiet lately” as an introvert myself, this is normal, yes, we see him being very loud on camera when he’s with dream, but as he’s with a load of people he may feel the need to not have to talk so much and be loud. This could just be me but sometimes with so many people it can be very draining and you just need to step back a bit, of course, there could be stuff going on in his private life but I just want to remind everyone that Jaemin can be a very quiet person as in introvert, he’s not going to be loud and hyper all the time (:
i'm just glad so many people are showing him love during this time and that there are so many that are understanding as well. i'm sure the recent promotions have been tiring for him, but he's working ever so hard. also think that if at any time i were in a room with 22 other people i'd be gone before the end of the day as well haha ><
if you love jaemin that means loving all parts of him. because high tension jaemin is just as much "jaemin" as the jaemin who's quiet and wants to recharge. i wish more people understood that. it's just who he is
EDIT: i genuinely forgot to add but i just wanted to say, rather than speculating and wondering if jaemin's okay or not, it's always nicer to leave nana words of support or love. go on lysn, if you're subscribed to his bubble drop him kind words everyday, leave comments on his instagram posts. he's said before that it's simple words like "i love you", "thank you" and "you've worked hard" that he wants to hear from fans. he's said that we should only see pretty things, and it's only fair we give him the same right? it's valid to be concerned if nana's tired or unwell, being in the main units for both part 1 and 2 and working so hard with practice and other schedules in between. that alone probably is so tiring, what more when there's ot23 events? the thought of it alone is draining to me, physically and mentally :') BUT! don't let that concern lead you to speculate unnecessarily, over-analyse relationships etc, because no matter how much you do that, you still won't know what goes on in his private life. you don't know them. we don't know what he sees online, but such comments have hurt those who relate to this, and admittedly myself as well. wouldn't it be best to just shower him with kind words? that should be the way with all members yeah?
just remember to always be kind and think before you put anything out there!! not everyone is the same, it's fine if you don't personally agree with the way someone "acts" but remember that if it's part of their personality, you can't change that. if you have something to say be nice and considerate about it, they haven't done anything wrong!
i tend to be very lengthy when it comes to things like this so i apologise!! whoever is reading this i hope you have a wonderful day ahead of you!! (*˘︶˘*).。*♡