cant even call this a take, its just observation😭 men r just expected to take it on the chin and move on, while women r more open/prefer to talk about it or through it
I’m gonna be honest, Kenzie and Dotto using Kenzie‘s name less so she can have her tuber persona more out there had me worried for a bit that they had broken up. But it’s nice to know things are still going well.
To this day people are still shocked and astonished when you tell them men and women might just be a tiny bit different and that's okay, also they assume since they aren't the same it must mean you're implying one is better than the other when in reality we complement each other.
The take about men and women, on average, responding to and processing problems differently is not even a take, that’s an observation that’s existed as long as time itself 😂. As an addendum/ corollary to what Doto was first talking about, I remember getting into fights with my parents, especially growing up. I always remembered getting into heated arguments with my Dad about the most serious and unserious sh*t. It would be sometimes loud and hurtful…but then we eat pizza the next night or play basketball and it mostly becomes water under the bridge. But I never dared to argue with my Mom the same way, because after a verbal jab was thrown, it would be processed a lot more emotionally intensely and that essentially changed the rules of engagement with her in certain situations.
I think its less about men/women and just how people be and are taught. You see it more because society made it a stereotype, that shit got pushed into the generic mindset and actually manifested that shit to an extent. But its not all women, or all men that think a certain way. Some people talk about their shit, and some people dont. Its not a "im born with a pussy so my brain is x and not y" thing, its just how people be raised.
I genuinely think this has to do with how men are socialized by society to be more self reliant, for better or for worse. They are told to be stoic. Because if I was told to get over something just because I was a man that would piss me off. I need to vent sometimes before I can solve the problem to clear my head. That comment would make my head even more clouded.
This is no hate toward Doto btw, I just feel differently then many men. And that"s ok.