BEFORE YOU COMMENT There's a lot of comments about me not wanting to go where she wanted to go...I never told her that or acted like I didn't want to be there. I was just giving y'all more context of what happened that night...for the video.  That's why she only brought up the bartending stuff in the text messages. <3

hey girl no shade i do kinda think u wrong for that. its not like she asked u to go pick somebody up for her, all she asked for was ice which shouldn’t be nomore than a few dollars. i think the same way u show up for ya old friends the same way u should ur new friends. and i feel like when u wit ya girls just enjoy time wit ya girls i dont rlly believe in having to always be around ngs when u go out but idk evb diff and i feel like when its ya friend event, bday celebration whatever just do what they wanna do and go where they wanna go, its not rlly abt what u want.

Bringing ice….yes
Bartending for free…heck no

I don’t feel like you were wrong but I do think specific things could have been communicated. You not wanting to bring this ice is understandable but from her perspective, you not responding, I understand why she would have been upset. And the night out, you leaving while saying you were gonna wait for her and sneaking off. However, it didn’t need to implode like that. You didn’t agree to making the drinks and she didn’t properly run that by you. The thing with the tall man thing was very strange on her part. You weren’t completely wrong. ❤

You could've texted her to say you're not able to get the ice. Y'all both have communication problems, I do too, and don't realize where I could've stepped up until after 😩 her assuming you'll bartend for free is odd bc you didn't say you would.

Inviting you to her party for you to WORK is crazzzzzzyyyyyy

Here's the thing...if she really needed a bartender she would've called you to confirm. Assuming you would've done something that she didn't ask you to do is wild. This isn't a miscommunication, She is being entitled beyond what she asked you for and you are not her nigga.  wrap that up.

you won’t wrong cause she knew she needed ice before the party.. the way she blew it up like that, she never liked you. Cause that was def just a miscommunication that could have been talked out. She didn’t make it clear that she wanted you to make the drinks, she just assumed you would volunteer since you got your certification. Babygirl sound like a user on the low 🥴

“I’m not mean but when I get irritated I’ll say anything” felt this so bad literally anything will come out my mouth when I’m irritated

the red seats are so tea

Ngl I feel like you could’ve got some ice… like that’s the least you could’ve done if she was providing everything else especially alcohol because that’s not cheap

Soon as you said she said she wants friends because she has no friends I was locked in lol because that is how it starts! This is why I be scared to help anybody especially new and also be scared to tell people some of my skills! Yes, I don't like last min stuff!!

You gave her an inch and she wanted you to run a whole marathon for her🤣🤣!

I think she wanted you to get the ice because in her mind you were supposed to be making the drinks but I do see the miscommunication

i just think the text thread escalated way too quickly for a miscommunication that wasn’t even addressed previously so even tho i don’t agree w how everything went down on either side , i do agree that that relationship wasnt gon end well regardlessss deflee not compatible and she was too quick to turn up before seeking understanding

The whole bartender thing is crazy but the ice damn girl u was already on the way…to have a few drinks too😂…idk me and my people would been like girl yea let me stop at this corner store real quick and grab us some ice to me it’s not a big deal if u was alr on the way.

A lot of women feel entitled to you doing things for them for whatever reason, so you saying no triggers them. She should’ve been had the ice and like you said, she had friends and family already there. The expectation for you to bartend was also a problem because why are you working for free at an event you were invited to? In the end y’all weren’t compatible; you confront things and she is more passive aggressive. I’m with you 100%.

I feel you on the ice part I went to a birthday gathering dressed up n all n I don’t like making stops in between but I did n got wet spots from the bag. Never again n it’s around 5 bucks for that small azz bag at that. Ughhhh

“maybe not today, but another day” still doesn’t directly say “I want you to help me make drink ideas for you to serve at my party. Maybe not today but another day ” if she wanted you to make drinks for her party she should’ve said that or “brainstorm the drinks I want you to make for my party, not today but another day” either way that’s not wtf she said && she knows it

now as far as responding tbh I do that sometimes because I don’t like telling people no but i also don’t feel like forcing myself to do it, is it wrong? Yes but once you didn’t respond she should’ve asked someone else.

Know it's bout to be tea when "so boom" come out