Dating apps are a freaking joke

Dating apps are full of scammers and messed up people.. Avoid them at all costs.. 🎉

1)  They haven't met in person yet and she's surprised that he may be talking with other women.    Um, what?

Stop dating and live a peaceful life.

People men or women documenting their dating journey online for everyone to see is a a MAJOR red flag!! If your in your 50's and just newly single go off and do everything you ever wanted to do and don't invite more drama into your life!

2)   ''Oh my, I spend too much time online because I have so many options.   Woe is me.''     puh-leeze

53 and never going to have these problems. Fishing, pool and bikes is all I want and need

Executive summary - they are never happy. What they say on their TT is how the average level of converation sits = boring.

The lady with the Motel t-shirt seems like a good person, low maintenance, and attractive but not overly focused on that.  Just relaxed.  Really stood out from the others.  Some guy’s gonna win being with her, seems like.

The woman who was seeing the guy who talked over her, walked far ahead, and over-drank but she is waiting to see ... what could she possibly be waiting to check? He has shown her the things she dislikes.

Whether you’re a man or a woman and your middle-aged, it’s challenging to find someone willing to give and take at levels that make a great relationship. Everybody wants romance and love everybody wants to feel chosen, but are willing  to give him what he really wants, if he’ll give you what you really want? It’s healthy to accept the fact that in midlife relationships have to be more transactional than they were when we were in our 20s. Be deliberate about communicating about everything and be willing to walk away if it doesn’t align

Pretty sad. I suggest deleting dating apps, finding activities that you enjoy and try to meet people that way. Organically.

Don't  forget FINANCIAL security!!

I started dating again in 2019 after a 30 yr marriage ...I was like why are 50/60 yr old women acting like indoctrinated college students ?..No really

This world is way too crazy to use dating apps.. take a class, any kind .. art, college, join a travel group , a book club, the more people you meet, then the more people you meet from those people

You're in your 50s...you don't have many days left. Are you so needy and lonely that you want to spend what little time you have left, trying to get to know someone else, waste all that time, instead of going through the world by yourself, doing what you want to do, living in beautiful solitude? People certainly get older, but not necessarily wiser.

In my 50's, I had ladies half my age buzzing my hive everywhere I went.
These women in the videos seem nice, but in their 50's, they need to think about fit, healthy guys about age 70;
they're off my dating radar - PERIOD!

Woman at 15:24 - “…guys I wouldn’t in a million years talk to…. If I saw them at a bar and they sent me a drink I’d send it back….”   HER?!!! Seriously?!!!  This takes delusion and unwarranted narcissism to a whole other level.  Her image of herself and reality “aren’t even in the same orbit”

Special: Everyone is prejudiced in their 50's when it comes to dating. Men who are 52 and Up want Young Virgin Wives who have Penthouse model looks while the women want Ronn Moss look alike husbands for marriage. Everyone at this age is just delusional. It's easier for a person in their 50's getting a Covid 19 Shot from their local Pharmacy than finding love at this later stage in life.
Dated September 5, 2026, USA

I don’t think the dating apps are the problem. Women who post all their dating experiences online and trash the guys they’ve dated are a red flag to me. What guy wants to date someone knowing he might become her next post if things don’t work out?

I don’t think they realize they’re turning off the very men they probably want to attract. Some of these posts are just so full of bitterness and contempt. It’s really off-putting.