As salaam alaikum. Parenting is definitely a trial. A very serious journey, full of ups and downs. May Allah Guide us all. Ameen!

If i could like this more than a thousand times I would. Allahoemabarik barakalohofiek for this information. May Allah bless and protect our children an make them and us people of Jannat al Firdous

Invaluable information Allahumma Barik

Salam Brother, absolutely brilliant talk 💯 👍🏼👏excellent information and here in the UK it is a challenge to keep the children on the right path. Setting a good example as a parent is key & nipping bad habits & behaviour in the bud before it escalates and then becomes impossible to change. Definitely encourage your children to surround themselves with good friends/peers 💞. From Nottingham, UK 🇬🇧.

This book is brilliant: Awakening from the Sleep of Headlessness - Ibn al-Jawzi (d. 597 AH)

it’s really helpful for young parents.

Very insightful jazakllah. Beautiful what you said about you letting your child go their way when they resisted. They are part of our journey to Allah rather than the destination.

Jazakallah khair!

Absolutely killed me when he said see the driver inside lololol

JazakAllah khaira ...as a single mum of a toddler who is very active. Thank you I am doing things wrong..always correcting and not giving enough space to play and making him sad.

May Allah SWT aid us to raise our children with Ihsan give us tawfiq to follow the right way to make our children the best

First 7 years- play with your child, years of fun.
Normal things to see in the child during these years: playing around/not sitting doing nothing, and this helps build them, don't give them gadgets!!!, so what can you do, give her tasks to do to help bring out the energy, also note that boy child isn't like girl child, visit family and neighbors. # At this age they follow what you do not what you say, so set good examples like you, good teachers, role models # At this age, they are usually stubborn, so don't abuse them and correct them peacefully # At this age, they can distinguish good from bad but they try to keep doing the bad so they see what the boundaries are like. # They ask a lot of questions 'lots of why's ' # They have very good memories # They love to be encouraged # They love competitions # they are full of imagination # they love routine
Second 7 years- Give Adab/discipline
# Focus on his brain and DEEN, so prompt them to read and memorize, bring them into elderly gatherings, tell them about house affairs. Salah is now important. They will now start to reach puberty, no regulated emotions, give a level of independence, you won't be his hero anymore so surround them with good people for friends. They love secrecy .They don't like routine anymore. They change a lot in what they like or not. They are lazy. They give up easily
Third 7 years- be her best friend.
Let them comfortable around you
Fathers should be part of the kids lives

Asalam anleykoum.  Do you have a book?

I would like to know ow all the 30 please

But also implement rules from a young age especially in these times..  otherwise when they get to 7 its diffcuilt

Or which book are you reading please?