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The Secret Pain of Every Man – And How to Heal It | Jason Wilson

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In this powerful episode of The Rise Up Kings Podcast, Jason Wilson sits down with ‪@skylarlewis‬ to dive deep into the hidden struggles every man faces and reveal the key to true strength, healing, and emotional freedom.

From fatherhood to faith, masculinity to vulnerability, this conversation will challenge everything you thought you knew about being a man.

🔹 The silent battles men fight daily
🔹 Why emotional suppression leads to failure in life & relationships
🔹 How to break free and step into true power

This isn’t just a conversation—it’s a wake-up call.

Connect with Skylar:
Instagram:Instagram: skylarlewis
YouTube: ‪@skylarlewis‬

Connect with Jason Wilson:

Instagram: Instagram: mrjasonowilson
Facebook: Jason Wilson
X: @mrjasonowilson

Explore Jason Wilson's Books:

Cry Like a Man: Fighting for Freedom from Emotional Incarceration
https://www.amazon.com/Cry-Like-Man-E...

Battle Cry: Waging and Winning the War Within
https://www.amazon.com/Battle-Cry-Wag...

The Man the Moment Demands: Master the 10 Characteristics of the Comprehensive Man
https://www.amazon.com/Man-Moment-Dem...

00:00 - Intro
00:20 - Jason Wilson & Skylar Lewis: A Powerful Conversation
02:10 - The Journey: From Music to Mentoring Boys
05:15 - Why Most Men Are Emotionally Stuck
08:57 - The Power of Learning to Fall
12:40 - How Martial Arts Reveals a Man’s Deepest Fears
17:28 - The Truth About Masculinity: More Than Just Strength
20:45 - The Hidden Pain Every Man Carries
25:12 - Why Most Men Suppress Their Emotions
30:05 - The Inner Child in Every Man
33:42 - The Shocking Reason Men Struggle With Relationships
37:55 - Why Stoicism Alone Is Not the Answer
42:10 - Fatherhood, Healing, and Breaking Generational Cycles
49:01 - Jason’s Prayer to Be Broken & Transformed
53:01 - Strength vs. Power: The Lesson Every Man Must Learn
57:45 - The Emotional Spectrum of a True Leader
1:02:00 - What It Means to Be a Comprehensive Man
1:05:00 - How to Get Involved with Jason Wilson’s Work
1:06:50 - Skylar & Jason’s Final Thoughts on Success & Purpose
1:08:40 - Closing: A Challenge to Every Man

For more information on Rise Up Kings, go to https://riseupkings.com/youtube

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Rise Up Kings Podcast on Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast...

Rise Up Kings Podcast on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6ILi73G...

#Masculinity #Healing #JasonWilson #SkylarLewis #RiseUpKings #MensHealth

20 Comments

@RestorationEdenMinistries 1 year ago

I am a woman but I am listening to better empathize and support the men in my life and minister to women so they can do the same. I appreciate yours and Bro. Jason's work and example. Blessings.

@branondempsey. 3 months ago

Talking about my pain saved my life

@obe2x 1 year ago

“Strength wanes, power doesn’t” this was such a bar, thanks for this

@VortexArcYT 1 year ago (edited)

"When you live freely from the good in your heart, you don't care about how you'll be perceived anymore"

@susanmartin870 1 year ago (edited)

Im only 19mins in, but wow, what STRENGTH amd COURAGE it takes for a man to admit he needs this kind of healing too, while seeing his son have it. I wish soooo badly that my husband would even so much as desire something like this, and my oldest son too.

@michaelmaddenSOZ 1 year ago

TRULY MEN NEED A POSITIVE OUTLET TO GROW AS A MAN, I NEED THIS...

@PhilipMyers-s2o 1 year ago

Purpose in our pain
Power in our past

@JesuisLord 1 year ago

I’m an army veteran and I care very much for my brothers, it took me a lot of counseling to feel my emotions, It really is a release and when I let in/out all the “negative” ones and stopped just masking with anger and frustration I also gained the feelings of the positive ones, so much joy. I want this for them all. “Stoicism is indifference” “You’ll take a bullet for your family, but will you die daily for them?!” Thank you Lord & Holy Spirit for the redemptive work you do in us when we yield to you 🙏💪

@dedecasey3737 1 year ago

Can't be bought, PEACE with Yah is better than money

@laraoneal7284 1 year ago

Tears actually release cortisol. It is so therapeutic to cry. I love that this man is soft spoken and everything he is saying. I’m a childhood trauma survivor and my recovery work has been arduous but worth it. I’m a woman but I appreciate everything he is saying. God bless you sir.

@antieau333 1 year ago

I am blown away. First time listener to the Podcast and new subscriber. I can not find the words to express what a blessing this podcast was to me. I have so many pieces that I connected to in this P.C. Like Jason I too grew up in the Detroit area and had very similar life experiences. I'd like to say I was lucky to find this Podcast but I know that it was a blessing from GOD and it came in his Perfect timing. Thank you so much for providing this blessing to me and others and I am looking forward to following more of this Podcast and reading all of Jason's books as well as following him too. In todays world we need more comprehensive men like these two. To GOD be the Glory and the Praise in Jesus name. Amen!

@laraoneal7284 1 year ago (edited)

Family of origin is always at the core of all of our issues. We must examine our family of origin dynamic or we never can be the authentic person we can be. I’m a childhood trauma survivor and for the last 20 years I’ve been doing recovery work. I can’t understand why I cannot rid myself of the residuals of resentment towards my parents. I cannot be the woman that God wants me to be unless I get rid of what I believe is a stronghold in my life. I stumbled here on this channel and I’m loving what I’m hearing. I believe some of this I can learn from & use in my life as a woman. Thank you both for this. I’m here for this and what I can take from this to make me a comprehensive woman .

@Projectartour 1 year ago

Raising a boy child, I needed to be here. So help is God🙏🏾

@mltnetwork 1 year ago

This is powerful... Thank you!!

@Jay_Lorenz 1 year ago

I like this man’s mind. I watch a lot of 19 keys, but I feel like this man’s message resonates more with who I am and who God has called me to be.

@paiddreamsproductions 1 year ago (edited)

"Be still and know that he is God" I've been doing everything to try keep moving and stay busy by any means and that one message is exactly what I needed. Thank you God for allowing me to be still and letting this found me. Keep believing everyone!

@chriso5699 1 year ago

Crayon analogy was key

@bazimbyeevans7420 1 year ago

Empowering.... Worth every minute.....🥰

@LoveMyDoSalon 1 year ago (edited)

I loved everything about this podcast! This is a conversation that is needed for men and young boys becoming men in this world! God bless! 👏🏾🙌🏾🔥

@StephenCoveny 1 year ago

You Guys are “Wild at Heart 💜 “ this is the No1 men’s being overcomers! Interesting that Women also have this privilege.God Bless and protect your Ministry.For you my Brothers the best is yet to come! Double Edged Sword of the Spirit will prevail.