1 constant emptiness
2 constant dissatisfaction
3 effort required to maintain a false self (performing)
4 fear of becoming irrelevant
5 the inability to experience emotional intimacy

This is actually a very sad way to live

I’m a born empath and as crazy as it sounds I pity them. But I’ll never go back to what I experienced. They are truly demonic

In the beginning, it feels like you've met the kindest, most affectionate person in the world. They are gentle, caring, and seem to mirror your every move. You might dismiss their lack of intimacy as shyness, not realizing that they are simply reflecting you back to yourself. As time passes, you notice something unsettling. they rarely express love in their own words. Instead, they respond with robotic phrases like, "I feel the same way," or "I love you just as much." They never voluntarily tell you they miss you or love you just because. You start wondering if they even have real feelings. In response, you try harder--showing more love, breaking down their walls hoping they’ll reciprocate. But they don’t. Their withholding feels like insecurity or trust issues, but in reality, it's something deeper. You get lost trying to make sense of their actions, but there is no logic, only confusion. Eventually, you become drainedmentally, emotionally, even physically. You either gain or lose weight, feel constantly anxious, and struggle to maintain peace within yourself. You take on more responsibilities, making their life easier while yours feels isolated and empty. One day, they seem into you, and the next, they pull away. When you express your concerns, they dismiss them, reassuring you with empty words. You begin suppressing your feelings, convinced you're too sensitive. They’re physically present, yet emotionally absent. If you ever confront them about the disconnect, they’ll gaslight you—making you feel insecure for even asking. If you cry, they won’t comfort you; they’ll scroll through their phone or continue eating as if nothing is happening. Their words never match their actions. Over time, you feel like you don’t even know them. Their emotional intelligence is so off, it’s as if you're teaching a child how to feel.

They keep every aspect of their life private family, finances, phone, friends. At first, it seems like personal boundaries, but after years, it feels like secrecy. They promise things but never follow through. They isolate you yet pretend they’re doing nothing wrong. When you question them, they act confused, making you over-explain yourself. Even their apologies are manipulative empty words with no change in behavior.

They’ll make you doubt reality. For example, they might give you $200 to pamper yourself but won’t invite you to Christmas dinner. They disappear for hours, then bring you breakfast as if that erases their absence. If you question them, they twist it to make you feel like the problem. Even intimacy is empty. Sex is routine no passion, no deep connection, no foreplay. Just mechanical. In the beginning, they might put in effort, but it fades quickly. No cuddling, no deep kissesjust another transaction. You’ll constantly wonder why their schedule changes so often, why they’re always so secretive. You might even become afraid to Google their name, scared of what you’ll find. Deep down, you know something is off, but by the time you realize it, you’re in too deep,trapped in their web of deception. And yes, they are always cheating. They exhaust themselves hiding it abusing caffeine, using ED meds, sneaking off with a secret phone, manipulating finances. They take long bathroom breaks, change work shifts unexpectedly, and always have excuses. If you ever catch them, they’ll gaslight you with nonsense explanations. Even if you track their location, they’ll claim Google is wrong.
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The narc is suffering?? Tough........💩

That was my ex G Friend …I’m so so glad I dumped her ass…she was a complete psychopath

I'm a born empath and this makes me feel a bit guilty because I have healed to the point that I call them out on their behavior.  I'm so over walking on egg shells .   I'm tired of being their victim . Their stomping ground .

That emptiness within is where the soul should be interfacing. Instead there is only an illusionary substitute. A soul that is growing and experiencing this world is a living incarnation.  But without the soul connection that the narcissist sacrificed in youth. All that is left is a dead shell. The desperate support of the illusion self is predatory. Never underestimate the hunger for narcissist supply. Forget the normal learning from karmic effect that guides living beings. There is no soul to grow. Only the illusion gets perfected.

If a narcissist suffers from her own behavior, then that will be the reason why she brings so much pain and filth to others. My experience with narcissists is extensive. Your own life goes through hell as an empath. They leave a trail of destruction behind them for everyone they manipulate. Nothing is real. They do not feel love. They are never grateful. Nothing is enough for them. They run from one man to another during the time they are in a relationship. They argue and seek validation 16 hours a day. At night, they sleep poorly. No rest. Because they keep seeking validation on their three mobile phones. In the morning at 6:00 AM, they are already walking down the street. They are walking. Looking for distraction and validation. They lie about everything to justify their dirty behavior. They seem so nice. But that is their mask. They humiliate you by caressing other men in your presence. Nothing is enough. Even if you bring them mountains of gold. There is no kiss, no thank you.  You have value when they feel that you validate them. But everything is temporary. They forget all the good you bring after 1 minute and turn like a leaf falling from a tree in 1 second. I should find a film producer to make a film about my life with a narcissistic woman. THE TITLE WOULD BE: THE EMPATH'S HELL. The narcissist I lived with was not human. It was the devil on earth disguised behind a mask. ❤️😊

Dear Dr. Ramani, Everything you tell is for me 100% the truth. An empath does not know what narcissism is. Until he goes looking for answers. For many, the experience is so profound. And answers do come. Yes, when I sat on the couch with her, I felt like I was alone. Yes, they can talk nonstop like a waterfall without realizing themselves that they are talking so much and senselessly. They constantly scream for attention. I hear her talking. I don't have to respond because she talks right over me. She doesn't hear me. When I came home from work, I gave her a kiss. But I never got a kiss back. You see that there is something wrong with that woman. You live life. Until you realize that enough is enough. They are ruining your life. Anyone with experience can smell a narcissist from miles away. Better happy alone than unhappy together. ❤️😊

No  peace lo love ♥️ within

Their identity is the illusion !

IGNORE AND NO REACTION TO THEM.

I shall play the violin for them.  I think it's big of me.

Went thru this online, can't imagine doing it in real time!!!😮

Thank you

Because all they have deep inside is nothing but a "void" it doesn't mean they don't know what is right and wrong, they knew it is wrong, and they wanted to do it anyway.

The europhoric effect is so predominant & self telling, among many predictable pre-onset behaviors leading up to a particular event or situation.
I believe with a narcissism & tatics stems from major abuse of emotional neglect in childhood. There's a fear of being alone, not good enough, being the escape goat child in younger years, to needing constant validation,  among top of the line/ expensive materialistic items etc.,as a child that was deprived of many things of conditional & unconditional love & difficult of emotional self regulation & coping skills of life experiences the narcissists encounters that eventually can include impulsive obsessive compulsive behaviors  within oneself & towards others.
My experience & being familiar with The DSM & treating/ counseling another as narcissism is a human behavior addiction it just depends on the
" severity index" & the global scale assessment of their self deficiencies & where improving needs need to be met. There are other assessment that could be used as well like the Meyer Briggs, the SOAP method, or using a BIOPSYCHOSOCIAL ASSESSMENT questionnaires among a couple other assessment questionnaires when trying to give a diagnosis or treatment. It depends whether it's an AXIS 1 OR AXIS 2 when trying to implement short & long term goals for treating and/ or understanding such behaviors whether a sociopathic narcissism to a full blown psychopath leading to delusional psychosis and/ or possibly as a dual diagnosis of including schizophrenia affective disorder, among the possibility of duel diagnosis personality types such as disassociate disorder etc.
There could be many diagnosis when speaking of narcissism traits, tatics and/ or symptoms.
I most definitely appreciate the educational tutorials from such professionals as it keeps me up to date with current information and enhances my secondary education pertaining to the  treatment,  counseling others and/ or staying in tune with anothers professionals advice, teaching and/ or mentoring.

My ex was a rarcissist he had so many masks that it is impossible to understand his behaviour
At least now it had be 7 yrs since  i got  rid of him
Thank you lord  for make me and other individuals get out of these  horrible situations. ❤

Good for Them , they asks for it " because  do not have " God  "

Knowing this after the fact doesn’t help ease the pain of the entrenched wound left behind after the empath has accepted the reality of the narcissist’s dual persona and separated from the fake person and the dark person the hurt does not seem to recede with time even though the empath has accepted and embraced the realities of his former partner who is long gone.  MIA, afraid to face the victim of their abuse. They must feel that no person can sustained n all that abuse without a strong and forceful reaction against the bully narcissist.  They fear retribution like they dole out on  occasion.