Basics of Communication Skills How to Communicate Better | by Prof. Dr. Javed Iqbal
Professor Dr Javed Iqbal
1,643,524 views
A person may think that good communication means speaking well, explaining their point clearly, or proving that they are right. But communication is much more than simply talking.
I want to help you understand the real purpose of communication and why understanding the other person is just as important as expressing yourself. Good communication begins when we become willing to listen, understand, and learn rather than simply trying to win an argument.
Listening requires more than staying quiet. It requires inner silence, attention, honesty, and a genuine desire to understand what the other person is trying to say. When we develop this learning attitude, our conversations and relationships can begin to change.
In this session, I also share practical communication skills including body language, eye contact, prompts, paraphrasing, and the importance of avoiding argumentative and judgmental behaviour.
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📝In This Video, You’ll Understand:
• What communication really means beyond simply speaking
• Why understanding the other person is a key part of communication
• Why listening is the prime tool of effective communication
• The difference between being silent and being actively silent
• How a learning attitude can improve the way we communicate
• How body language and eye contact affect communication
• How small prompts can make a conversation more engaging
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💡Key Reflection
Good communication is not about proving that we are right. It is about creating enough understanding for two people to learn, connect, and move towards a meaningful outcome.
✓ Listen to understand, not simply to respond.
✓ Replace the need to win with the willingness to learn.
✓ Remember that strong communication develops gradually through practice.
❓When you are having a difficult conversation, do you usually listen to understand the other person or prepare your response while they are speaking? Share your reflection in the comments below. 💬
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📚 Chapters
00:00 — Introduction: What Communication Really Means
01:25 — Communication Is About Understanding, Not Just Speaking
03:20 — Language: Expressing Feelings or Hiding Them?
05:05 — Listening Is the Prime Tool of Communication
07:10 — Silent vs Actively Silent: Learning to Truly Listen
09:15 — Learning Attitude vs Earning Attitude
11:25 — Why Arguments and Judgment Hurt Communication
13:20 — Body Language and Eye Contact in Communication
15:05 — Prompts and Paraphrasing: How to Improve Conversations
17:00 — Honesty: The Foundation of Good Communication
18:30 — How to Know When Communication Is Successful
20:00 — Communication Is an Evolution, Not a One-Time Job
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20 Comments
1) You have to understand what another person is saying.
2) Listening is the prime tool of communication.
3) When listening another person, we have to become silent internally (silent our thoughts).
4) In the moment of anger, we don't understand another person talk and wait for our chance to communicate. and we are also internally busy in our thoughts.
5) There are two types of behaviors in a human being in communication: -
1)Earning Behavior: Always looking for some benefits whether intellectual or emotional. This person will always be looking for faults in others.
2)Learning Behavior: Always looking to learn something from another person. They focused on their growth and development.
6) listening the other person with learning behavior.
7)How to develop learning behavior:
1) Don't become argumentative. (don't try to prove that they are wrong and you are right.)
Winning an argument means losing a relation.
2) Don't become judgmental in communication ( pehle se hi faisla mut kro dusre insaan ke baare me)
Don't give them any personality tag. keep your personal opinion a side about the person while communication. Example: ye insaan to mere khilaaf he.
8) learn Body language skill.
9) Be honest.
Allah ap ko hamesha salamat rakhy .
r No words. You are great.
Tuhadi gal sidhi dimaag vich utar jandi hai. 🙏🙏
From India ( Amritsar )
Basics of Communication Skills How to Communicate Better | by Prof. Dr. Javed Iqbal
Professor Dr Javed Iqbal
1,643,524 views
A person may think that good communication means speaking well, explaining their point clearly, or proving that they are right. But communication is much more than simply talking.
I want to help you understand the real purpose of communication and why understanding the other person is just as important as expressing yourself. Good communication begins when we become willing to listen, understand, and learn rather than simply trying to win an argument.
Listening requires more than staying quiet. It requires inner silence, attention, honesty, and a genuine desire to understand what the other person is trying to say. When we develop this learning attitude, our conversations and relationships can begin to change.
In this session, I also share practical communication skills including body language, eye contact, prompts, paraphrasing, and the importance of avoiding argumentative and judgmental behaviour.
---------------------------------------------
📝In This Video, You’ll Understand:
• What communication really means beyond simply speaking
• Why understanding the other person is a key part of communication
• Why listening is the prime tool of effective communication
• The difference between being silent and being actively silent
• How a learning attitude can improve the way we communicate
• How body language and eye contact affect communication
• How small prompts can make a conversation more engaging
---------------------------------------------
💡Key Reflection
Good communication is not about proving that we are right. It is about creating enough understanding for two people to learn, connect, and move towards a meaningful outcome.
✓ Listen to understand, not simply to respond.
✓ Replace the need to win with the willingness to learn.
✓ Remember that strong communication develops gradually through practice.
❓When you are having a difficult conversation, do you usually listen to understand the other person or prepare your response while they are speaking? Share your reflection in the comments below. 💬
---------------------------------------------
📩 Subscribe to my Newsletter
Get weekly reflections on parenting, family life, personal growth, and meaningful living.
https://profdrjaved.com/weekly-reflec...
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Follow Prof. Dr. Javed Iqbal:
YouTube: @surgeonjaved1
Facebook: Facebook: profdrjavediqbal
Instagram: Instagram: profdrjavediqbal
LinkedIn: LinkedIn: profdrjavediqbal
Website: 🌐 https://profdrjaved.com/
📧 Business Enquiries: support@profdrjaved.com
---------------------------------------------
Continue Learning with Prof. Dr. Javed Iqbal
Explore practical courses designed to help you improve yourself, your relationships, and your family life:
▶️ Effective Parenting Course
Manage behaviour, discipline, and habits with clarity.
https://shop.profdrjaved.com/products...
▶️ Effective Family Course
Improve communication, resolve conflicts, and strengthen family relationships.
https://shop.profdrjaved.com/products...
▶️ Consultation with Prof. Dr. Javed Iqbal
Get focused guidance for personal challenges and decisions.
https://shop.profdrjaved.com/collecti...
🎓 Explore all courses:
https://shop.profdrjaved.com/
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📚 Chapters
00:00 — Introduction: What Communication Really Means
01:25 — Communication Is About Understanding, Not Just Speaking
03:20 — Language: Expressing Feelings or Hiding Them?
05:05 — Listening Is the Prime Tool of Communication
07:10 — Silent vs Actively Silent: Learning to Truly Listen
09:15 — Learning Attitude vs Earning Attitude
11:25 — Why Arguments and Judgment Hurt Communication
13:20 — Body Language and Eye Contact in Communication
15:05 — Prompts and Paraphrasing: How to Improve Conversations
17:00 — Honesty: The Foundation of Good Communication
18:30 — How to Know When Communication Is Successful
20:00 — Communication Is an Evolution, Not a One-Time Job
#ProfDrJavedIqbal #CommunicationSkills #EffectiveCommunication #ListeningSkills #PersonalGrowth
When you are having a difficult conversation, do you listen to understand the other person or prepare your response while they are speaking?
Share your thoughts in the comments below. 💬