12 Steamy Touches That Make a Man Melt (That Women Never Think Of)
Mat Shaffer
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The touch isn't the thing… the ALMOST is the thing. Go somewhere he isn't expecting, then stop, and he won't be able to finish his sentence. 🔥
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🤍 Watch the full series on how to touch a man: How to Touch a Man (The Complete Series)
A while back I made a video about kissing, and there was one moment in it I called the magic inch, where you get right up to the edge of a kiss and then you stop. You hold there.
That moment got more replays than anything I've ever filmed. More than the kiss itself.
Because here's what almost nobody understands about a man's body: when you touch him somewhere he wasn't expecting, and then you stop, you leave him somewhere he can't get out of on his own. He'll still be thinking about your hand three hours later.
So here are twelve touches built on exactly that. Twelve places to go… and, more importantly, where to stop. Half of them you could do at dinner with his mother sitting across the table. The other half, definitely not.
▼ IN THIS VIDEO ▼
→ The invisible touch you can do under the dinner table
→ Why touching him while you're talking to someone else is so powerful
→ The most claiming place you can touch a man, and why to do it in public
→ The spot that registers as trust most men rarely feel
→ What your nails can do that your fingertips can't
→ The ridiculous one (brace yourself, he might kick)
→ The one that has ended more conversations mid-sentence than anything I teach
→ Why stopping early is the whole point
→ The touch that tells him exactly what you're thinking without a word
→ What happens when you turn his face toward you
→ Why pushing him back pulls him in
→ The final touch, and why it flips everything he expects
If you've been searching for how to touch a man, where men love to be touched, how to build tension and anticipation, or understanding male psychology, this is the insider breakdown.
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Mat Shaffer is a dating and relationship coach for women. He helps women understand the way men actually think, feel, and connect, from inside the male mind.
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▼ CHAPTERS ▼
0:00 The touch isn't the thing. The almost is.
1:53 #1 His Wrist, Under the Table
3:02 #2 Just Above His Knee, While You're Talking to Someone Else
4:13 #3 The Base of His Spine, in Public
5:41 #4 The Hollow of His Throat
7:01 #5 Down His Collarbone, With Your Nails
8:09 #6 The Back of His Knee
9:26 #7 Just Below His Navel
10:30 #8 His Inner Thigh, From the Knee Up
11:33 #9 Your Thumb Across His Bottom Lip
12:38 #10 Cupping His Jaw and Turning His Face to You
13:36 #11 Flat Palm on His Chest, Pushing Him Back
14:48 #12 Holding His Wrists
16:08 Final Thoughts
💬 Which of these twelve are you trying first? And be honest… who's already thinking about number seven? 👇🤍
18 Comments
Cathy from England
Did things not work with the other lady. I’m sure her name began with K. I’ve been following you for a while now. Either way you both look happy and that’s what matters.
12 Steamy Touches That Make a Man Melt (That Women Never Think Of)
Mat Shaffer
12,300 views
The touch isn't the thing… the ALMOST is the thing. Go somewhere he isn't expecting, then stop, and he won't be able to finish his sentence. 🔥
Want to know how the man in your life REALLY experiences you? Take my free 2-minute quiz. It's honestly a little scary how accurate it is:
👉 https://matshaffer.typeform.com/to/ZF...
🤍 Watch the full series on how to touch a man: How to Touch a Man (The Complete Series)
A while back I made a video about kissing, and there was one moment in it I called the magic inch, where you get right up to the edge of a kiss and then you stop. You hold there.
That moment got more replays than anything I've ever filmed. More than the kiss itself.
Because here's what almost nobody understands about a man's body: when you touch him somewhere he wasn't expecting, and then you stop, you leave him somewhere he can't get out of on his own. He'll still be thinking about your hand three hours later.
So here are twelve touches built on exactly that. Twelve places to go… and, more importantly, where to stop. Half of them you could do at dinner with his mother sitting across the table. The other half, definitely not.
▼ IN THIS VIDEO ▼
→ The invisible touch you can do under the dinner table
→ Why touching him while you're talking to someone else is so powerful
→ The most claiming place you can touch a man, and why to do it in public
→ The spot that registers as trust most men rarely feel
→ What your nails can do that your fingertips can't
→ The ridiculous one (brace yourself, he might kick)
→ The one that has ended more conversations mid-sentence than anything I teach
→ Why stopping early is the whole point
→ The touch that tells him exactly what you're thinking without a word
→ What happens when you turn his face toward you
→ Why pushing him back pulls him in
→ The final touch, and why it flips everything he expects
If you've been searching for how to touch a man, where men love to be touched, how to build tension and anticipation, or understanding male psychology, this is the insider breakdown.
▼ WORK WITH ME ▼
💎 Private 1:1 Coaching. I work with a few clients at a time.
If something in this video hit home and you're ready for real change in how you connect with men, apply for a free Breakthrough Call to see if we're the right fit → https://matshaffer.typeform.com/to/FC...
💌 Get weekly love & relationship insights
Practical, powerful emails on connection, masculine psychology, and feminine magnetism → https://www.matshaffer.com/
▼ RELATED VIDEOS YOU'LL LOVE ▼
🎥 10 Steamy Touches That Make a Man MELT for You! — 10 Steamy Touches That Make a Man MELT for...
🎥 The 7-Step Kiss That Makes a Man Melt (In This Exact Order) — The 7-Step Kiss That Makes a Man Melt (In ...
🎥 9 Ways to Touch a Man (That Women Have NO Idea About!) — 9 Ways to Touch a Man (That Women Have NO ...
▼ ABOUT MAT ▼
Mat Shaffer is a dating and relationship coach for women. He helps women understand the way men actually think, feel, and connect, from inside the male mind.
💖 Let's Stay Connected
→ SUBSCRIBE for weekly videos - https://bit.ly/2Y0SpEp
→ INSTAGRAM – Instagram: matshaffer
→ FACEBOOK – Facebook: IamMatShaffer
▼ CHAPTERS ▼
0:00 The touch isn't the thing. The almost is.
1:53 #1 His Wrist, Under the Table
3:02 #2 Just Above His Knee, While You're Talking to Someone Else
4:13 #3 The Base of His Spine, in Public
5:41 #4 The Hollow of His Throat
7:01 #5 Down His Collarbone, With Your Nails
8:09 #6 The Back of His Knee
9:26 #7 Just Below His Navel
10:30 #8 His Inner Thigh, From the Knee Up
11:33 #9 Your Thumb Across His Bottom Lip
12:38 #10 Cupping His Jaw and Turning His Face to You
13:36 #11 Flat Palm on His Chest, Pushing Him Back
14:48 #12 Holding His Wrists
16:08 Final Thoughts
💬 Which of these twelve are you trying first? And be honest… who's already thinking about number seven? 👇🤍
Here's what surprises most women: not one of these twelve is about doing MORE. Every single one is about stopping sooner, and that's the part men can't stop thinking about.
Which one are you trying first? Tell me below. I read every single comment 👇
Free quiz → https://matshaffer.typeform.com/to/ZFhuDDN5?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=video&utm_campaign=12-steamy-touches