24 Brutal Dating Lessons Every Woman Should Know
Alejandra Maria
27,328 views
Most women learn these dating lessons too late—but not you. In this video, I’m breaking down 24 powerful dating truths that will help you avoid heartbreak, maintain your standards, and get the love and respect you deserve.
I’ve coached hundreds of women and learned from my own experiences, and I can confidently say: master these lessons, and you will never settle for less again.
📌 Time Stamps:
0:00 - Intro
0:52 - When a man wants you, he will claim you
1:56 - Your absence is more powerful than your presence
2:26 - Access breeds blindness
2:48 - The women that never get taken for granted do this
3:30 - Men respond to actions and no contact
3:57 - The more you do for yourself, the more others want to do for you
4:19 - People want to feel wanted, not needed
4:58 - It is the attitude you have about yourself that another person is going to adopt
5:08 - How it starts is how it will continue
7:10 - The right man will never put himself in a position to lose you
8:06 - Your partner should not know everything
9:10 - Focusing on potential means you don’t like the reality being presented to you
10:12 - You marry the family as well
11:56 - Trust your gut
13:21 - His friends matter
15:40 - People value what they work for
16:11 - Your boundaries are only as good as your ability to enforce them
17:03 - The reward for putting up with nonsense is more nonsense
17:10 - When to take a man by his word
18:00 - He treats you how he feels about you
18:27 - Trust his actions, not his words
18:47 - Love is not hard, struggle love is
20:10 - Choose peace over emotional rollercoasters
21:34 - The relationship dynamics that stand the test of time
💡 Which lesson hit you the hardest? Drop a comment below!
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I am. That´s it. If a man can deal with it, he´ll be my man.
A female friend of mine, met her boyfriend directly out of a toxic marriage. They dated each other over one week and moved together. End of the story. 8 years later, they are still a happy couple. No games. No rules. Just love. Relationships can be easy.
I understood that love doesn´t need all of these dating rules and games.
24 Brutal Dating Lessons Every Woman Should Know
Alejandra Maria
27,328 views
Most women learn these dating lessons too late—but not you. In this video, I’m breaking down 24 powerful dating truths that will help you avoid heartbreak, maintain your standards, and get the love and respect you deserve.
I’ve coached hundreds of women and learned from my own experiences, and I can confidently say: master these lessons, and you will never settle for less again.
📌 Time Stamps:
0:00 - Intro
0:52 - When a man wants you, he will claim you
1:56 - Your absence is more powerful than your presence
2:26 - Access breeds blindness
2:48 - The women that never get taken for granted do this
3:30 - Men respond to actions and no contact
3:57 - The more you do for yourself, the more others want to do for you
4:19 - People want to feel wanted, not needed
4:58 - It is the attitude you have about yourself that another person is going to adopt
5:08 - How it starts is how it will continue
7:10 - The right man will never put himself in a position to lose you
8:06 - Your partner should not know everything
9:10 - Focusing on potential means you don’t like the reality being presented to you
10:12 - You marry the family as well
11:56 - Trust your gut
13:21 - His friends matter
15:40 - People value what they work for
16:11 - Your boundaries are only as good as your ability to enforce them
17:03 - The reward for putting up with nonsense is more nonsense
17:10 - When to take a man by his word
18:00 - He treats you how he feels about you
18:27 - Trust his actions, not his words
18:47 - Love is not hard, struggle love is
20:10 - Choose peace over emotional rollercoasters
21:34 - The relationship dynamics that stand the test of time
💡 Which lesson hit you the hardest? Drop a comment below!
#blackcatenergy #feminineenergy #datingadvice
Watch Next:
✅ BECOME MAGNETIC with BLACK CAT ENERGY in 2025
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✅ How To Make Them VALUE YOU (DETACH and FOCUS ON YOURSELF)
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💌 Work with me:
👩💻 Book a 1:1 Session→ https://stan.store/anxiouslyalej/p/ca...
👑Apply For Dream Girl Academy (April Intake) → Deadline: March 21, 2025
https://4h6kaivwz5x.typeform.com/to/X...
📖 Get the Emotional Mastery Workbook → https://stan.store/anxiouslyalej/p/em...
Don’t forget to LIKE, COMMENT, & SUBSCRIBE for more videos on self-worth, emotional mastery, and personal transformation.
Business Inquiries: hello@anxiouslyalej.com