What you said about Zendaya loosening up with Tom and being more comfortable to act silly reminds me of something that my INFJ friend told me once. They said that something that makes me very special is that with me they feel free to express the "weirder" side of themself, they feel safe in explaining even their most complex ideas to me, and they never once felt like I was bothered by it or that I didn't care.

As for me, an INFP, I value authenticity a lot and I told my friend that if I seem genuinely interested and like I enjoy their company, it's because I truly do. My friend makes me feel seen, heard and understood, helps me be the best I can and in return I just show them my true self with no shame and I make sure they know how much I appreciate them.

I see what you did there, encouraging people to be more open-minded about people who are different from them, and that they have agency in how well or how poorly a relationship can go no matter what the personality types are. A message that everyone should take very seriously in these troubled times. It's hard, but thanks for the reminder that I should try!

I always noticed that they were totally opposites, but at the same time complementary. Since they came out as a couple, Zendaya has been more expressive and comfortable around Tom. Before, she had fun in interviews, but was always very serious, or acting more professional. Now she always plays with him, or is laughing. It's really fun to see this transformation over the years.

You'd think that after watching so many videos of them together id stop smiling like a damn idiot everytime I see them interact..but I guess not lol

It’s cool because stereotypically the Enfp/Infj relationship is the best match for those two types. Seeing it in real life validates that point. In a healthy relationship they balance each other out and also bring out the best in the other person. Thanks for the awesome video! Keep up the good work!😁

And now Tom and Zendaya are married. They are such a lovely pair.

it was interesting to see how this 2 type that is opposite of each other, yet complement each other perfectly... we love to see this

I think that every ENFP needs at least one INFJ in their lifetime. I’ve really learned a lot and continue to learn so much from my INFJ, it’s really magical how this dynamic works and I can’t even picture how this dynamic can fail in any way. It just seems that both these types want the same thing at the end of the day which makes it really easy.

5:30 this feels so true like when he FaceTimed her with a bloody face after snowboarding cause he was so excited to be doing smth dangerous and she was like “Whatre you doing???”

Tom led the way on all the questions that tried to side step into relationships questions. He just said obvious lies like "we hate each other". She felt safe because  he led the way and she could just follow even if it appeared a bit chaotic.

I'm an INFJ and I really hope I'll find myself an ENFP one day. I realized that when getting the chance to know them better they are one of the very and mean VERY few people that make me feel like I can be entirely myself and I feel comfortable being "loud" around them.

You’re so right about a lot of this! It’s great to hear these perspectives from someone who really knows more about personalities, compared to an outsider.

Tom himself has said (paraphrased - I don’t remember the exact wording):
- “Without Zendaya and golf, I’d be a mess” (Dec, press tour)
- “Zendaya has been instrumental to my sanity” (November, GQ i think)
- “Zendayas superpower is the ability to calm me down when I’m too far gone” (Dec, press tour)
- “Having Zendaya as a friend has been so valuable to the success and happiness of my career and life” (February 2020 before they were a “confirmed couple”)

I do think Tom and Zendaya work well together and while they may have their differences, a lot of their core values and things they enjoy are pretty similar (as someone who has been a fan of Zendaya since Shake It Up and Tom since Civil War). I wish them the best, whether it is as a couple, friends or acquaintances in the future!

These types r me and my gf so I’m glad you did this. This fits us perfectly. Thank you Eric for another amazing video!!

Would it be possible for future vids about situations showing where people are in a way "forced" in changing aspects in their personalities (emulating other personality types) that eventually makes them feel bad (inauthentic, uncomfortable, etc) about themselves that could somehow demonstrate each personality type's so-called "dark side"?

This must be underrated but the the part around 1:15 when Tom just motions Zendaya to tell his favorite scene in his ear was super adorable.

As an INFJ, I've always vibed with ENFPs and INFPs. The differences and similarities between the types are so interesting. For example, I feel like INFJs can be very similar to INTJs (must be the introverted intuition), but the differences can cause a lot of conflict, depending on who one is dealing with. I find ENTPs fascinating. I could listen to them for hours. I just don't know if they would generally be just as interested in an INFJ.

WOW I LOVED THIS SO MUCH!!! I've noticed all the things you're talking about over the years watching these two- they impact each other's lives for the better in such a beautiful way. It's so fascinating how their personality types are different in every way possible, but it's so apparent that they have the same life values and humour, and just a deep respect and love for each other.

I love the mirroring of the two types, they click so well. Would love a video on why Sebastian Stan and Anthony Mackie click so well together..

This was beautiful. Thank you. I hope people watch this video until the end because I think your conclusion is such a valuable lesson in life on getting along with people.
About Tom and Zendaya, they have a special chemistry with each other. They genuinely care about and respect each other. We can’t help but hope they are the rare celebrity couple that stays together. It’s soul-filling to see a couple exude such positive, loving energy with each other. It spreads hope that we can all work together to help create a better world!

(I sound here like the INFP I am, don’t I? 😂)

And that’s probably why Tom Holland is known for spoilers for his movies. I wonder if him and mark ruffalo share some aspects of their personalities.