"Are there any things I shouldn't talk about with people?"
You might have trouble with conversations, right?

There are some things you can easily screw up talking about.

The easiest to understand are things related to money.

It will make you jealous.
It will spread rumors.
It will attract a lot of attention.

It almost never brings any positive results. But in many cases, people will talk about it as a way of boasting.

We've talked about these specific things.

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▼Table of Contents▼

00:00 Today's Topic
00:38 ① Privacy-related matters
03:26 ② Assets and money-related matters
05:12 ③ Stories of old heroic tales
07:26 ④ Complaints about the community
09:56 ⑤ Criticism of people close to you
12:33 ⑥ Deep conversations despite shallow relationships
14:56 ⑦ Overtalking about things that are going well
16:45 Summary: Important things to remember

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●[Warning] 7 things you should never tell anyone at work / What causes rifts in relationships?
【要注意】職場で絶対に人に話さない方がいいこと7選／人間関係に亀裂の入る要因とは？

●[Advice] 7 reasons why you shouldn't tell people what you really want / What are the dangers of saying it out loud?
【忠告】本当にやりたいことを人に話してはいけない理由7選／口に出してしまう危険とは？

● "Talking to them is exhausting": The psychology of boastful people and three ways to deal with them
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● A blog to help HSPs and sensitive people live better lives
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● Summary of HSP diagnostic tests: "Three types: Introverted HSP, HSS, and HSE"
https://cocoyowa.com/test/

● Ryota's lifestyle and column blog
https://brweb.jp/

● The ultimate solo technique. When you're struggling with relationships, try living like a "friendly lone wolf."
A counselor shares the secret to avoiding making enemies.
https://brweb.jp/life/lone-wolf/

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Brief Profile
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Ryota

Born in 1984. Studied healing music, hearing, psychology, gender studies, etc. during college (Bachelor of Arts).

A severe HSP himself, he has changed jobs five times and experienced relationship difficulties.

He holds multiple titles, including mental health counselor, behavioral psychologist, composer, and lecturer. He is a father of two children.

Runs "The HSP Textbook," a consultation service and lifestyle guide for HSPs.
Has published books with four companies, including KADOKAWA and SB Creative.
Runs "Cocoiro Salon," a community for HSPs...