In this video, I react to a Kevin Samuels-style conversation featuring a 52-year-old woman who wants a financially established man with resources while explaining that she isn't interested in working for him or helping build what he has.
As the discussion unfolds, Kevin challenges the one-sided nature of that expectation and explores mutual selection, reciprocity, compatibility, relationship roles, financial expectations, and the importance of understanding what both people bring to a partnership.
The key question is simple: if you know exactly why you want him, have you considered why he would choose you?
This conversation isn't about saying someone can't want a provider or prefer traditional relationship roles. It's about recognizing that the person being asked to provide has standards, preferences, and expectations too.
What do you think? Should a relationship be evaluated by what one person can provide, or by the overall value both people bring to each other?
Let me know your thoughts in the comments below.
In this video, I react to a Kevin Samuels-style conversation featuring a 52-year-old woman who wants a financially established man with resources while explaining that she isn't interested in working for him or helping build what he has.
As the discussion unfolds, Kevin challenges the one-sided nature of that expectation and explores mutual selection, reciprocity, compatibility, relationship roles, financial expectations, and the importance of understanding what both people bring to a partnership.
The key question is simple: if you know exactly why you want him, have you considered why he would choose you?
This conversation isn't about saying someone can't want a provider or prefer traditional relationship roles. It's about recognizing that the person being asked to provide has standards, preferences, and expectations too.
What do you think? Should a relationship be evaluated by what one person can provide, or by the overall value both people bring to each other?
Let me know your thoughts in the comments below.
This is because as a man that's able to financially support a stay at home wife, in exchange for that I want my own biological children and that's something a woman my own age simply can't give me.