No trans girl is complete without a cat.

i shave in the shower, its much better for me imo. Also depending on how dark your hair is you may not need to do like half of the upper thigh. Always do legs though. In general you just need to shave up to wherever everyone will actually see. That also means if you are single right now, (given you arent tucking with adhesives), you do NOT need to shave your privates. You can if you want to but no one is seeing that. Same thing for body, if its winter, you do not need to shave your belly because no one will see that. Also if you can, get a cheap epilator first and see if you can handle the pain/can do it freely, if you can great, you cut your grooming time a lot. Also if you want to get around the lighting without doing a flashlight or anything, once youve shaved once, after you shave up the leg, feel for any hairs with your hands, and then reshave in that area. You do not need to reapply shaving cream if you put enough on as its main purpose is to soften your hairs. Id say the bare minimum is face, legs, armpits. Legs and Armpits should be every 2-4 days, depending on circumstance. The more consistently you shave, the faster you will get at it.

Some people get mad but i call my dog a freak of nature cause hes super SUPER weird. He dosent bark, he yodels. He sometimes screams like a person, and he has human eyes. Hes daddy's little abomination. Its affectionate. You calling your cat a terrorist made me think of this

with the right clothes and long hair it's mostly enough to pass visually as a girl. Voice is the main clocking things, that's for sure. if you want 100% pass there are so many niche things you can do to maximise the chance of passing, like how to walk, shrinking your body, smiling a lot. oversize hoddies and mask were my best friends before hrt, then i got into eyeliner, then foundation when i was already in HRT. never stuffed my boobs, i don't like having fakes things on me, natural hair, natural boobs uwu. tho they are quite small, bu noverthless they do not make me pass less. of course if they were bigger people would notice more which means people will mostly think i'm a girl based on them, but also old geezer staring at my boobs

Wash face with warm water and soap first, then after, wash with cold water and soap. That way you close your pores back up that way you get less acne. Then moisturize 💫 i was raised female and had to shave my whole body to be "appropriate for church" lol but yeah ⭐️

The cat is very cute

Im going in for my first electrolysis appointment soon, one thing i hate about it is that i cant shave my face in the days leading up to my appointment

Ok for anyone still watching this who has curly hair (maybe straight too idk) WEAR A BONNET TO SLEEP. Im telling you the difference is literally night and day, my hair used to look like a birds nest when i wake up and now its so much easier to maintain, looks alot nicer, needs less washing, and is probably alot healthier.

In terms of hairstyles unfortunately my hair is still too short to make a nice ponytail. A few styles Ive liked so far are pigtails (be warned, theyre harder than they look), headbands/head scarfs, or coils. I also like gathering the hair that would hang in front of my ears and tying it behind my head around forehead level while letting the hair on the back of my head hand loose, idk if this has a name but i think it looks really good and its very practical.
Also if anyone knows a good way of dealing with facial hair that isnt just shaving constantly i would very much like to know😢

Thanks for the advice on height to wear skirts, I was watching this on my lunch break, changed the height and it looks a lot better. Here's some advice I've heard for choosing clothes, try to go for tighter clothes on top or bottom and loose on the bottom. In general it looks better than tight and tight or loose and loose. For example, if you're wearing skinny jeans, don't tuck your shirt in, but do if you're wearing a skirt

EDIT: This is way too damn long. Read the reply for my actual process instead of everything you can do.

I'm late to the party but for anyone stumbling on this later than me here is how i do my makeup.
Makeup is basically painting, you have layers I'll break each section, although this is the order i do it in;

General Face;
- Cleanse and moisturize your skin, shave as well. Sometimes the foundation will sit on the dead skin cells and look flaky - gross and loos bad, fine hairs can do the same.
- Primer. Doesnt matter what kind, it makes a barrier between the skin and makeup so you dont get acne breakouts. Put all over the face.
- Concealer. Tap onto spots that are dark marks, eye bags, spots, scarring. Let it dry for around 20-30s and then dab in the same spot with a blender/finger.
- Foundation. This is your general coverage to hide redness/discoloration, it sits on top of concealer so it looks more natural. One squirt on back of hand and spread out, then dab onto face. Using less will look more natural and concealer is doing the bulk of the work on blemishes.
- Blush. Dont make a face when putting on blush because you'll naturally reset face position and it'll be off. Put on cheek bone with relaxed face and blend out.
- Highlighter. Above the cheek bone, it catches the light and looks pretty c:

Eyes;
- Eyeliner before eyelashes because we're gonna curl em, it'll be harder with them in the way. You want to follow your natural eyelash length and go to the corner of your outer eye you dont have to do a wing, but if you want to - go for it. The point is to make your eyelashes look darker at the roots.
- Curling lashes. It looks like a torture device, but my sister helped make it easier. Place it vertical  in the eye socket, and once the lashes are in, rotate 90 degrees. You want to squeeze as you move your hand upwards to crimp the eyelashes into a curled position. Try not to catch the eyelid, very painful 0/10 dont recommend.
- Mascara. Hold it sideways like you're handing over a bill and rest it against the lashes. Blink into it, move, blink, repeat. You can encounter clumping if there's too much material on the wand, so you can wipe some of the material off in the container before you try to apply it on your eyes.
- Eyeshadow. Not something i have much experience with, a nice simple idea is to take two colors, maybe one that compliments your eye color and a neutral and place them either side of your top eyelid blending between them. For extra pizzas you can add glitter in the middle to brighten the eyelid and make a better blend finish.
- White pencil eyeliner? I dont know what it's called specifically so I described it. Draw a small amount on the inside of the eyes next to the nose. Then blend it out with a finger, will make the eyes look brighter.
- Eyelashes. They're a pain I never do them because they're too finicky. But really feminizing once you can do them. You'll need a set of eyelashes, eyelash glue and place them above your eyelashes really close to them. Most eyelashes wont be your size, so you'll have to cut them to shape to match your natural ones.

Eyebrows;
- Pluck. Yeah it sucks, but it's the best and easiest way to get a shape you want. Especially if you have a lot of eyebrow hairs.
- Pomade. It's good for most people who arent eyebrow deficient like me. Can also be useful for maintaining eyebrow shape for longer. You brush it on, it's like mascara for eyebrows.
- Eyebrow pencil. You can draw in additional hairs to make your eyebrows more full, outline the eyebrows to make them sharper, or fill in patchy spots. Match your eyebrow pencil color to your eyebrow color. If you dont have many eyebrows like me, match your hair color. In my case black/really dark brown.

Lips;
- Lipgloss. Can be used on your natural lips or on top of lipstick. If on top of lipstick use your finger rather than the wand, you dont want lipstick being dipped into your gloss.
- Lip Plumper. Causes a mild irritation of the lips to cause them to swell, tingles, bit annoying but they usually come as a 2 in 1 with lip gloss so maybe try it out see if it's for you.
- Lipstick. You can choose whatever color you want here. But if you dont know, go for the same color as your nipples. Weird, I know but this is what my sister recommended to me.
- Lip Liner.  I never do this, but trace your lip line, if you want to exaggerate your lips size do so, but be careful as it can look like drag which may not be what you're going for.
The rest are going to be tips and things to avoid.
You want the middle of your upper lip to be an M shape, this can be done by making an ah mouth shape and starting at the point apex.
Avoid going to the corners of your mouth. You can follow the lines perfectly, but if you go to the corner of your mouth, the lipstick will look smudged and out of place there.
Dry lips = dry looking lipstick, so use a chapstick beforehand to keep things moist and remain hydrated. You could even moisturize your lips if you like.

Contour;
I will honestly say i know very little here but will share what i do know.
- For more fem look, round off your forehead at the hairline with a dark color - bronzer, or dark nude colours blended out will achieve this. If masc look, square it off, think crew cut.
- You can also round off your jawline in the same manner and thin the neck by doing the same. If trying to look masc, do under the jawline, this squares off your jaw looking more masc.
- The aim of contouring is to create the illusion of shadow, which our brains see as depth making things look more receded and the contrary is true - brighter = pulled foreward.
So more intricate work on the nose might pull aspects forward whilst pulling others back. I'm not experienced enough to guide to this extent. Contouring the cheeks, neck, forehead and jaw is easier.

Set;
- Setting spray. This is a good all rounder, spray yourself in a + action, then a X action to get full coverage. Works well with Dewy/glass skin makeup styles.
- Setting powder. This sets a matte finish, but creates a softer look. It's also referred to as baking. It's typically done after the base layer [Primer, concealer, foundation] has been done to set all of that before you layer on top. It's advised to set the eyes immediately after finishing the concealer/foundation on them to prevent creasing.

General tips;
- Wet your blender. You want to rinse it under the tap and squeeze so it slowly increases in size. Then squeeze so most of the water is out. The goal here is for the water to prevent picking up too much material with your other products and just soaking it into the sponge.

- Use the same primer/foundation type - oil vs water vs silicon based. If you get an oil based primer and a water based foundation, you'll end up in sadsville. It'll separate and look weird.
You can see if it's oil, silicone or water based by the product ingredients.
Silicone based will have ingredients like dimethicone at the top of the list.
Oil based foundations will have oil as their 2nd or 3rd ingredient. The higher the ingredients usage, the higher in the ingredients list it will be.
Water based will have neither oil nor silicone at the top of the ingredients list and will instead list water.

- Fixing mistakes;
For the sake of argument let's say you made a mistake with eyeliner. Wait until the eyeliner is dry. If you remove it before then it'll smudge and make things worse.
Use a Q tip wet with micellar water to remove the eyeliner.
If you're being lazy like me; Same as before, wait until dry, then blend it in with a beauty blender you've already used for foundation. The foundation will give coverage to hide the mistake.

Q tip is probably better but I'm lazy, sue me.

That's all I can think of.

I'm surprised people don't work on their voices much, it seems one of the more important ones to me

Girrrrrrllll!!! I love those hearts around your neck!!! 🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤

The sock trick is brilliant

nair has def worked my with me, would def recommend to any transfems to get rid of hair. even tho its a meme rn with the nair video, its actually a great solution for body hair anywhere, and i mean ANYWHERE (you know what im talking about)

Sugar scrub=> yes!! Also you can make your own sugar scrub with avocado, honey, and of course sugar. If avocados are too $$, olive oil works good!

I love your Opeth t-shirt.❤

Gosh I miss you. I need so much advice, and I 100% vibe with you ❤ Please come baaaaack 😭😭

I wax my facial hair. It's hard work and takes over an hour, but no shadow afterwards.

This video makes me feel seeeeeeenn Ty. I relate to so much lol

You looked around yourself in the closest, and realized you don't have to come out to start looking good