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For this video, I truly did my best to create something meaningful, not just in terms of the video itself, but also in terms of the ideas and content I wanted to share, which I hope can be useful or meaningful to others.

A video like this takes time. There are many thoughts, ideas, revisions, time, and effort involved in the process, so it cannot always be made quickly.

And now, I would like to share a reflection that I think is worth thinking about.

Ironically, sometimes people who hide the truth or cover things up can still be liked by many people, while those who are brave enough to speak honestly can end up being disliked or even hated.

But having an honest opinion does not automatically mean that someone is hateful.

As long as an opinion is expressed respectfully without insulting people, being racist, humiliating others, or intentionally putting someone down, a person still has the right to express their own perspective.

And not every opinion has to be expressed in extremely formal language to be valid.

Everyone has their own perspective and preferences. We do not all have to like the same people, stories, works, or things.

And simply not liking someone does not automatically mean hating them.

I can appreciate someone’s work, achievements, abilities, skills, or talent without necessarily admiring or liking that person personally.

In the same way, recognizing certain behaviors, disagreeing with someone’s actions, or disliking harmful behavior does not automatically make someone a “hater.”

I have never considered myself a hater of anyone, including people who have hurt or caused harm to me. I also do not normalize or justify hurtful words, lies, or other harmful actions simply because they come from someone else.

I also do not always know everything about a person, especially when I am far away from them and have never personally known them. When something feels strange or makes me uncomfortable, I can acknowledge that feeling, but I may not always know exactly what is causing it or what it truly means.

Even people with a very high level of ability or understanding cannot know everything about another person completely, so I certainly cannot claim to know someone entirely either.

Please do not be too quick to label every different opinion as hatred. Not everyone who does not admire someone is a hater, and not everyone who praises someone necessarily knows the whole truth about them.

What is even more ironic is that falsehood can be liked, the truth can be covered up, while honesty can be disliked or even punished. Sometimes, people may be treated badly simply because they choose to speak honestly and tell the truth when what they say does not match what others want to hear.

Falsehood can be liked, the truth can be hidden, the truth can be disbelieved, and honesty can even be attacked simply because it does not align with what people want to hear.

Reality (truth) remains reality (truth), even when it is temporarily covered up, denied, or something people do not want to hear, even when that reality is never revealed to everyone.

Perspective is different from truth. Everyone can have different perspectives and preferences about anything. Differences in perspective are natural, but having a different perspective does not automatically change the facts or make something that is wrong become right.

What someone likes, believes, or wants to hear is not necessarily the same as what actually happened. That is why it is important to distinguish between personal perspective, preference, perception, and reality.

When I admire someone, I believe it is normal and reasonable to appreciate them while still maintaining healthy boundaries. Admiration does not mean  invading their privacy or crossing personal boundaries. I can appreciate someone, respect their work, personality, or qualities, while still respecting their privacy, personal space, choices, and boundaries.

You can watch my video to understand its content, meaning, and purpose, as well as how it connects to this reflection I have shared with many people.