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Girl… Be Serious 😭 | Lesbian Court & Dating While Your Life Is Changing

carlneesha 💗

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lesbian court is in session, and respectfully… girl, be serious. 😭💕⚖️

welcome back to i have something to say! grab your drink, get comfortable, and prepare to have an opinion because we’re getting into lesbian dating, messy situations, and the very real question of whether you can make room for love when your life is already doing the most.

this episode brings together the fun conversations and the honest ones: weighing in on lesbian court, thinking about what we actually want from dating, and talking about starting a new chapter before we have every detail figured out.

⚖️ LESBIAN COURT

we have two cases to discuss, and i need my jury present, attentive, and ready to explain their verdicts. we’re hearing the stories, considering the decisions, and asking where you would draw the line.

💕 CAN YOU DATE WHILE YOUR LIFE IS CHANGING?

wanting a relationship doesn’t automatically mean the rest of your life is settled. you can want connection while you’re figuring out your future, preparing for a move, changing careers, or trying to understand what this next version of you needs.

💬 LET’S TALK IN THE COMMENTS

could you date someone who was preparing to move? would you date during a major life transition, or would you take a break until things felt more settled? and if you’ve started over in a new city, what helped you feel at home?

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16 Comments

@shaunmiller3291 2 days ago

Dating and getting to know someone takes a time commitment. You can 100% not have the bandwidth to take in anything new.

@ElectrifyingUnicorn 1 day ago

I think for the right person/situation anything is possible…I think we get so caught up in the grind that we forget that tomorrow isn’t promised to any of us…ppl are either spending too much time looking behind them or trying to prepare for the future…we need more moments spent living in the present…

@kamariacoleman7629 2 days ago

I can not date in transition. I tried it before and it did not work out! I also built an unhealthy attachment to the person that was “there for me”. However, I think everyone has different capacities…but for me. Issa NO.

@kamariacoleman7629 2 days ago

Case one: STILL guilty!!!!
Case two: they must be in their 20s…bc girlll WHAT!!! Why would you pay for something that you can’t afford THEN blame the person you call your partner. Cut the loss now. The gaslighting after the fact is insane.
Case three: wild all guilty! I don’t believe there was ever a private chef booked 😂

@U5678-hl7oi 14 hours ago

I really appreciated what you said about dating when your life is transition, and it’s part of the reason I clicked on the video. I grew up in an extremely religious community, and I went to a college where you could literally get kicked out if you had a romantic relationship with the same sex. I was still in denial about my sexuality until the last two years of college, when I finally came out. But during college (and before as well), I never seriously dated for fear of being caught—and I’m not the kind of person who wants to date in secret. I graduated last year, and now I’m struggling to try to date, even though while I was in school, I yearned for the freedom to do so. I blame it on a bunch of factors, “I can’t date because I don’t have stable employment, I’m preparing for out of state grad school, I need to be more in shape, I’m living with my parents (supportive now btw).” But I think I’m just scared. I’m embarrassed to have no experience, I’m scared of rejection and heartbreak, I’m scared of being vulnerable and doing something wrong, and I hardly have any friends outside of that religious community—it’s just so hard when you really haven’t done it before. I tried Hinge for a bit, but I deleted it the second I felt rejected. So, I don’t really know what to do now.

@shaniciablake6037 2 days ago (edited)

Case #1 has me messed up!! How is the girlfriend gonna post talking about "I'm excited to surprise my girlfriend" and then tell her to pay money??

Verdict is solid. 😤

@anyakturner 1 day ago

You need to do more cases!!

@brinaleftie178 1 day ago

These lesbian court cases are insane, I swear I said no way these are true because wtf 😩😂😂😂😂

@Heyhey_hay 2 days ago

You’re very brave😊 I pray this transition a great success and that you enjoy every moment

@GorditaGuerita 2 days ago

1:24 this Calypso is the BEST one! Your reaction is my reaction!

@anyakturner 1 day ago

Ayo the second case had me cackling 😂😂😂 I think $480 is reasonable but not for no 30 year olds to be on bunk beds and pullout couches 😂😂

@shaniciablake6037 2 days ago

nahh for the case from last week.. I agree with your verdict. A month is too long!

@anyakturner 1 day ago

The piercings look so natural!!

@sonderexpeditions 2 days ago

Love this

@acrylicplumcake 2 days ago

I personally am that person that may or may not move in a few months (graduating med school and gonna find out my post grad plaement in a few months) but i would be upfront with the person im dating about that. I probably wouldnt date someone movin in like 3 months or less but if its like farther in the future then sure

Also good luck with the transistion <333