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DIVORCED WOMEN REVEAL HARSH TRUTHS THEY WISH THEY KNEW BEFORE MARRIAGE‼️🤨 LADIES LISTEN ‼️

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DIVORCED WOMEN SHARE HARSH TRUTHS THEY WISH THEY KNEW BEFORE MARRIAGE‼️🤨🥴

What really goes wrong in marriage? 💔 In this eye-opening video, divorced women open up and share the brutal, unfiltered truths they wish they had known before saying “I do.” From red flags they ignored 🚩 to lessons learned the hard way, these powerful stories could change how you view love, relationships, and commitment forever.

If you're dating, engaged, married, or healing from a breakup, this is a MUST-WATCH. These real-life experiences will help you avoid common mistakes, recognize warning signs early, and build healthier relationships.

🔥 In this video, you’ll discover:
Biggest mistakes women make before marriage
Relationship red flags you should NEVER ignore
Hard lessons from divorce that can save your future
Truths about love, commitment, and compatibility
What no one tells you about marriage

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20 Comments

@zeinababdi4757 5 months ago

I learned never to improve a man's life by helping Him to become successful, He will drop you for someone who never helped Him.

@Vuri_ 5 months ago

I cannot repeat this enough to the gorlies in 2026: Have your OWN MONEY, girlies!!!

@Njjoy16 5 months ago

All I ever hear is marriage is a lot of work. I already have a stressful job!

@srae7658 5 months ago

It doesn't matter if people tell you all these things before you get married because everybody thinks they're the exception.

@FaithfullGiver 5 months ago

Ladies, protect your wombs from unplanned pregnancies REGARDLESS of the words that come out of his mouth. Your womb. Your responsibility. Protect your body with consistent condom use especially if you know or suspect he may be stepping out. Don’t ignore the red flags. Please listen to older women. Get your education. Don’t have more kids than you you you can afford to care for. Having tons of kids won’t make him stay. Sorry so long. Love you ladies. Now, love yourself and go do the right thing. ❤❤❤😘

@Sunshine11-d8v 5 months ago

MEN tell younger women not to listen to older women because we're bitter 😂😂 Who do you think made us that way! We were also once young & delusional BECAUSE WE HADN'T BEEN THROUGH ANYTHING. Now we warn & try to advise. UNDERSTAND MARRIAGE is more of a benefit to MEN not women!! OVERALL we're all saying the same thing & that's IF YOU LISTEN

@MakingDisciples4Jesus 5 months ago

A smart person learns from their mistakes a wise person learns from other people's mistakes

@rooting4west379 5 months ago

I got married at 25 had EVERYTHING on my own. Home, career, SANITY. Lost it ALL! Married and living together 1 year, pending divorced 2 years. Just don't get married. It's not the flex everyone tries to make it to be. You become an "honest woman" not by a man marrying you, but by you being true to yourself, your goals, your aspirations and when you marry you throw a lot of that away to support everyone else's first. That man, then the kids. I would NEVER get married again. Been divorced 15 years now. I got EVERYTHING I lost back. I will be damned if i give it up. Especially my sanity.

@HangingChad03 5 months ago

STAY SINGLE
stay alive

@jodynanci 5 months ago (edited)

Both men and women show their true colors when divorcing. Never depend on anyone for your livelihood

@kameshiam1674 5 months ago

My step grandma told me to marry a man who loved me more than I loved him. And I did. But after the wedding, he switched up and he really didn't love me at all. But he demanded that I was to still be good to him. One day he put his hands on me and it was game over. I was able to finally divorce him.

@Laidbackcat 3 months ago

I heard this recently and it stuck with me: IF MARRIAGE WAS BENEFICIAL FOR WOMEN, THEY WOULD HAVE ALREADY TAKEN IT AWAY FROM US.

@jenniferbates2811 5 months ago

I work as a Sex/ relationship therapist and sadly you really don't know anyone.

@mintybadger6905 5 months ago

Omg, I’m married but the idea of giving up my own source of income chills me to the bone.,I am married to a good man, but I am not giving up control of my own money.

@tlhogid663 5 months ago (edited)

I consider myself lucky that every man I dated in the past showed me the darker parts of their nature early in the dating phase.
I am 41 years old and never had a relationship longer than 10 months... also have had long periods just being single and enjoying my life between "relationships".

Three years ago I decided to stop entertaining men.
I can't even imagine having s*x with a man right now because I know it would disrupt my peace.

@jocelynamtower1487 5 months ago

I’ll be 60 next year. This is the one statistic that I would like younger women to know 70% of all men who are married to women who get sick leave them.

@melitacilia 5 months ago

As a 38-year-old woman, I look at the older generations, mothers, grandmothers, aunties, and honestly feel disappointed. No one warned us. Instead, we were taught to shrink ourselves, to stay quiet, to accept less. I’m proud of the younger women who are finally refusing that narrative. Women today are more aware, more vocal, and no longer willing to settle. And as a millennial auntie, I’ll always tell the younger generation of women don’t rush into marriage and if you do, get a prenup.

@PamLacey-z9s 5 months ago

A stay at home mom should require a small ‘salary’ from her spouse in a separate account that’s hers alone. No stay at home mother should have nothing to show for her hard work. If that upsets him, he’s manipulative and wants you totally dependent on him and you will suffer his wrath.

@jessierainey7287 5 months ago (edited)

Be careful, I was with a narc for 8 years he was hard working admired by his peers my parents ran background checks on him and he didn't become physically abusive until year 8 when we were finally planning a wedding. The smart ones will play the long game on you and can fool the best of them, even the men in your life who should be able to vet these people

@loveyourselffirst549 5 months ago (edited)

My advise as a wise woman... do not get married and if you absolutely have to for kids get a PRE and POST NUP. Include a cheating clause, keep your assets, have a separate bank account with savings and protect yourself against your partners potential lies outside children, debt, crimes etc. Agree spilt of household duties BEFORE living together, if the do not stick to the arrangement LEAVE. Any form of abuse, gaslighting, manipulation, weaponised incompetance, name calling, hurtful 'jokes', physical, sexual, verbal violence LEAVE.