It actually isn't hard to NOT date the girl you babysat when you were 20 and she was 14.

i dont think i like being a minor in 2024 anymore

“Just because you don’t feel victimized doesn’t mean you’re not a victim.” TRUTH OUT LOUD.

kendrick wrote the 2024 anthem fr 😭

As a real victim of grooming, analyzing the behavior of potential groomers isn’t damaging to victims. It’s at the very least building awareness and at best (very possibly) helping someone who IS a victim.

Bro how hard is it to be sexually active with people your own age 💀

Hiring a grown man to edit videos of your 14 y/o daughter is WILD and then having him live under the same roof is actually insane. Where tf is the mom in all of this? How come no one has pointed fingers?

Why is EVERYONE a groomer nowadays?

As an aging Gen-Xer, (46 this year,) I just want to say how thankful I am that this kind of behavior is getting LOUDLY called out like this by people in your generation. I've been an angry anarchist, feminist, leftist since high school, and in decades before when I would express my discomfort and disgust at age gap relationships, the grooming of younger people by older folks who should damn well know better, the power imbalance inherent in these relationships, etc, I would get told that I was taking things too seriously, that it's not that bad, dismissive things like that. Changes like this give me hope for the future in a very bleak time.

"I would say that we should send you back to 7th grade grammar class but I'd be afraid you'd find your next girlfriend" had me 💀

that poor woman. the point of getting groomed is you don't realize you're being groomed

sincerely, someone who was groomed

also: nobody just watches someone turn 18 and is like "woah... suddenly I view you no longer like my sister but more like a romantic interest"

Saw someone say that these guys are ok with dating girls this young but would not be friends with boys that age because why would they because that's a CHILD

bro how many people are gonna get caught for grooming this summer

My mom was 12 dating a 21 year old. TO THIS DAY. She doesn’t think it was weird. She is 43. Let that sink in. People have been successfully groomed when they don’t realize they’ve been groomed

This is honestly creepy asf for the mom to be open to have him as a guest, and the fact that he dated a girl who he knew since he was 14 and also babysat is scary.

As someone who dated a much older guy while I was in high school….i can pretty much guarantee that they got physical before she turned 18. I think we all know this.

the person who pisses me off the most is indiana's mom. who in their right mind would allow an adult man to live with their teenage daughter and allow them to have that kind of relationship. the neglect is sickening.

Finding out that when I was a child I actually had a chance with a lot of YouTubers I liked is insane

I really appreciate that he searched for the actual definition of grooming and didn't just use it as a buzzword

half way through watching this video it clicked in my brain that they have the same age gap that me and my BROTHER have. let that sink in for a second. my brother who views me as a "cringey teen" which is HOW A 24 YEAR OLD SHOULD VIEW A LITERAL CHILD.